<p>Basically a mirror image of everyone else..
I want to:
*Work out a TON more because I haven't had a gym membership for years and I'm SO excited about having a gym in college.
*Stop procrastinating so much.
*Meet a ton of people and become social.</p>
<p>I'm already outgoing and social and confident, but I've had really bad luck with friends. A lot of them have ended up being total *****es (such as one that had sex with my then bf and lied to me about it), and I can't wait to go somewhere else and meet new people.</p>
<p>I always tried to have a close friend and never felt I did. now I feel I have a lot of close friends. It just depends. Just try meeting a lot of people and then you select who you want to become closer to. That is why it is important to reach out at the beginning so you can center in on friends you like rather than having a narrower group to begin with. It also makes it easier for study groups and hanging out, partying. The like. So I hope that answers your question. I'm trying to think of how I became closer to my good friends now. But I can't b/c it's early in the morning and I'm going to bed. Ask me if you're confused I know I am.</p>
<p>alright you dont have to wait for college for all of this, for one, get off this stupid board, your all in college, you dont need it, and why does everyone have the same bloody reaction to what you want to change? you shouldnt want to change anything.</p>
<p>I think for these ppl to just say they are going to do something doesnt mean they will and they should realize that (although it doesnt mean they wont) and just go do it.</p>
<p>thethoughprocess.....WHY COME ON THIS SITE WE ARENT IN COLLEGE EITHER....I think my attitude is fine just Im not extremely nice like all the fake ppl on this board here pretend to be.</p>
<p>If your attitude, El Commando, is that nice people are fake then maybe your attitude does need a change b/c you coming here and bashing people that legitimately just want to make things better is ridiculous. And ladies man is hard to do in high school b/c you know everyone and they are stupid or boring. I changed my confidence and level of outgoingness at college. I feel Im a better person for doing so. You can change.</p>
<p>Just don't go overboard with the looks. That is the biggest problem people have on this board. Changing for others and not for themselves. I want to look better to be healthier and feel better about myself. Just think about changing your attitude. Some like El Commando need it.</p>
<p>sorry for being an ass I just took a nap and I feel so much better and I regret being an ass. AP tests (only 2 btw...lol) and not much sleep has gotten to me and I feel dumb now for saying that stuff. I dont know wat i was trying to prove. ANd I know ppl are gonna say thats no excuse but if you are undergoing the same stress then youd understand.</p>
<p>yeah I understand. its fine. I would get so mad after chem lecture b/c the prof was atrocious that one time when my friend spent HIS CREDITS to let me in I for reason got mad and was a complete ass to him the whole lunch. It was awful. Good thing we were good friends and he understood it was my bad mood. That was very awful of me. He was very cool about it tho. Takes a big man to realize a mistake but an even bigger man to admit it. Good job, El.</p>
<p>Heh. We say we'll do these things now, but a year later...</p>
<p>Anyway, I want to:
- Get my priorities straight
- Become more involved
- Be a little more positive. I'm kind of faking it right now. Hehe. And the fact that I laugh a lot doesn't mean I'm "Ms. Cheerful" XD
- READ MORE! I'm so friggin' slow! Its pathetic!</p>