<p>I might not react to the word “■■■■■■” as much as I do to other words, but I will blow a fuse if someone makes fun of someone that is mentally handicapped. It is more than I can handle!</p>
<p>words like “■■■■■■” “schizo” etc can be tolerated if I know someone doesn’t think before they speak, but in the case of a bf it is a dealbreaker. And as for the word “dumb”… I don’t like people that put down others so it would still upset me :)</p>
<ul>
<li>Doesn’t breathe.</li>
</ul>
<p>how would you know if he ever cheated on someone? if he did, he might have a propensity to lie, you know</p>
<p>My number one deal-breaker ever is not having a sense of humor. I will literally refuse to be around people who can’t understand my jokes, and if you can’t make me laugh, you must be pretty dumb, since I will laugh at any- and everything.</p>
<p>Also, this sounds weird but when I first meet people I end up not liking, I get a strange feeling about them. I don’t know how to describe it and it’s obviously not foolproof, but if I had that feeling when I first met someone, I’d have to figure out for myself why before I ever considered dating them.</p>
<p>I basically only have the deal breaker that I could never some intolerant, stupid idiot who never gives the damn, never has an original thought doesn’t know how the spell creativity. But then, such a person would never be interested in dating me, so I don’t have to worry.
Other than that I can only say I’d probably wouldn’t date a completely obese or unfit person, or someone who is drunk or stoned 24/7.</p>
<ul>
<li>smoker/drug user</li>
<li>overweight</li>
<li>lacks basic hygiene</li>
<li>racist/sexist/homophobe</li>
<li>thinks twilight is OMG TEH BESTEST BOOK EVAR!!!</li>
</ul>
<p>-shorter than me
-major psychological disorder (passive-agressive, manic)
-religious
-socially conservative
-IQ > 20 points lower than mine</p>
<p>I’ve never dated anyone, so I don’t know what deal breakers I would have, but I figure this is more of a “people you don’t like being around” for personality traits and “people you find ugly” for physical traits.</p>
<p>I guess my list will be:</p>
<p>Drinker</p>
<p>Does one of a number of drugs… Though there are some illegal drugs which I don’t think are bad for you and wouldn’t have a problem if she did one of those responsibly.</p>
<p>Significantly dumber than me</p>
<p>“Tall” I’m not sure how tall, but I find girls in the 4ft. 10 to 5ft. 1 range most attractive. Certainly not taller than me (I’m 5ft. 8)</p>
<p>Ultra Liberal. Ultra Conservative would probably annoy me too but I live in Ann Arbor so I never meet any people who are Ultra Conservative. </p>
<p>Wants to talk to me about politics, economics, or religion. At the very least someone who wants to talk about one of those things without being an expert in it. A lot of people who have been raised in religious families and have embraced it are people who I would consider experts of their religion. </p>
<p>Atheist who for some reason seems to have the need to try to convince everyone else that they should also be Atheists. </p>
<p>Health nut. I support healthiness to a point, but some people act as if that being healthy is the most important thing a person can be (and it’s ****ING NOT!)</p>
<p>"Ultra Conservative would probably annoy me too but I live in Ann Arbor so I never meet any people who are Ultra Conservative. "</p>
<p>Clearly I am taking the wrong classes!</p>
<p>“Clearly I am taking the wrong classes!”</p>
<p>Well, I would imagine Poli Sci tends to draw all the Ultra _____ people, so what few there are, they’re in your classes.</p>
<p>We had an argument about whether or not obama sucks that was pretty much split down the middle in my Spanish 103 class last Friday… in Spanish. </p>
<p>It was the funniest thing I have ever witnessed.</p>
<p>Breakers:
-Smoker
-Chicks that have no money (I’m a nice guy and I don’t mind paying for stuff, but not everytime)
-No sense of direction for the future
-Lazy
-Can’t carry on a decent conversation</p>
<p>Party animal-big deal breaker
Shorter than me- Hey, I’m only 5’3. I will NOT date a guy less than five inches taller than me.
Heavy drinker/smoker/drug user
An extremely extrovert- I’m extremely introverted, so a hyper social guy will not work for me
No goals, ambitions, education, etc
Morbidly obese
No job/income- I REFUSE to pay for everything
Playa/Thug wanna-be</p>
<p>There’s more, but those are some of the big ones.</p>
<p>Red Sox fan
listens to Pink Floyd
Doesn’t wash her va-jay-jay
smokers
Doesn’t know who Klaus Kinski is
ghetto trash<em>sledgehammer to head</em>
In any way resembles any of the 4 girls from swap.avi
has a <em>little girl</em> body
submissiveness
unoriginality
wears those ginormous glasses- ya’ll know what I’m talking about
pretty girls who rely soley on their looks to get by in life</p>
<ul>
<li>Not compassionate towards animals</li>
<li>My dogs don’t like him</li>
<li>He doesn’t like dogs/is allergic</li>
<li>Wants to live in a city</li>
<li>Smokes/gets drunk more than once or twice a week</li>
<li>Is a moocher</li>
<li>Doesn’t have any ambitions</li>
<li>Very unfit</li>
<li>Not willing to travel</li>
</ul>
<p>
</p>
<p>Isn’t that the goldfish on American Dad? :P</p>
<p>NO!!! google, NOW!!! :-{</p>
<p>^^ haha I was being facetious!</p>
<p>Jimgotkp-So your bones are 50 pounds overweight? Just joking, bro.
Back to the topic…
Hate this in all genders:
poor dental hygiene-doesn’t get biannual teeth cleaning, doesn’t floss daily, yucky gums, gnarly teeth, take pride in yourself
liar
cheater
rude
talks and laughs too loudly at inappropriate times and to draw attention
apathetic
cheap-pay your share, we’re all poor at this age</p>
<p>my deal-breakers -
-guys shorter than me
-a smoker/drug user
-excessively overweight/unfit
-a guy not interested in playing/watching sports
-a needy guy (any guy who cries, constantly talks about feelings etc.)
-a depressed guy (optimism about life is a must)
-any super-religious/crazy conservative/loony liberal-hippie (no extremes)
-apathetic/not interested in current events/politics/traveling at all
-doesn’t have a job and career ambitions
-guy who can’t hold a conversation (I like guys who are outgoing and like to talk)
-guys with the “super-macho” attitude (who think “I’m good at everything, women should be subservient to men,” etc)</p>