<p>icekiss, drew31 appears to be new to the forum and may not have read all the previous discussion about how there is no way to rank schools for many reasons, some of which are listed above. Perhaps we should give him a break and try to help him.</p>
<p>For the benefit of new readers who get to this thread, I'll repeat my pessimism that I've shared before. You can speculate all day about what is best, but in reality, your top 5 list is the group of 5 schools that accept you!!! That's if you are one of the fortunate ones to get that many acceptances. </p>
<p>My son did happen to have this many from auditions (plus 2 safeties) to choose among. He felt very fortunate, lucky, and humbled about this, as he would have been happy at all of them. He is going to Elon in the fall, so I agree with Lexasmomkbj! Just because Elon was right for him totally doesn't mean that others would have picked it out of his group of acceptances. Other people would likely have different "best" schools out of his choices.</p>
<p>You should do your homework or visit for yourself to decide which schools seem to be a fit for you - then go audition for those. Don't let your heart get set on one, two, or three of what you consider top programs. People who get into numerous big name programs are RARE!!! You must believe me on this one. It's been discussed often before on these threads.</p>
<p>I just want to remind all of you bright, talented, and excited students and parents (and I'm rooting for you next year!) that we personally knew or met MANY students (both boys and girls) who auditioned at numerous schools last year who ended up with not many or hardly any choices or a safety school or breathed a sigh of relief when finally getting into a wait listed program. Everyone out there auditioning is talented, and every school may be looking for something different. This is very difficult reality, because it is human nature to believe that it is someone else and not you or your child that will have this happen.</p>
<p>I think people should try for a variety of programs, perhaps some better known and some less well known. Most importantly, my opinion, expressed before, is that you should have a safety (the only safety is a non-audition school). I think you can find one if you really search, but I think it needs to be somewhere that you can be happy. Looking at your nearby colleges and state universities may not be a bad idea.</p>
<p>You are welcome to write me if you want more thoughts on this. Please send an e-mail from the drop-down menu, if you write, rather than doing a PM (as they stay full).</p>