A question for the guys...

<p>Just wondering, would you ever take a lot of time and effort to help out a girl who you don't think of as a friend or more?</p>

<p>For example, let say theres a girl who's been writing her college essays. She's been struggling and you know that you could help her. Would you do it? This is assuming that you have no feelings for the girl, and you really aren't more than just friendly acquaintances.</p>

<p>Random question, I know, but I'm just wondering.</p>

<p>It kind of depends… I’d help out a good friend for sure, even if I didn’t have any interest in her. If I didn’t really know the girl, I probably wouldn’t spend a lot of time trying to help her out. But personally, if I were the guy in this scenario, it would probably be because I do have an interest in her. </p>

<p>I have a hunch that this question isn’t really all that random…</p>

<p>Haha. I would if she approached me, but if she wasn’t my friend, why would she ask for my help with an essay or anything?</p>

<p>Haha, ok ok, I’ll admit it’s not THAT random ;)</p>

<p>I definitely would if she asked me. If she didn’t and I really saw her struggling, I would probably ask if she needs help (I guess that’s my personality). There’s may a slight hesitation because you think she might think you like her and stuff escalates from there, but that is minimal and usually doesn’t pop into my head.</p>

<p>What do I think? That (a) this isn’t a random question, (b)that he likes you, and (c) that you should go for it.</p>

<p>I love helping people out so yeah.</p>