<p>At least I’m trying not to be a loser. I’m becoming more and more normal by the day and next year you’ll barely be able to recognize me. Emo kids think that everyone else is the problem and do little to change their own faults.</p>
<p>If you’re transferring for the purpose of friendship and social networking then you’re not fit to be in college.</p>
<p>Don’t worry about making friends; just be yourself and they’ll eventually gravitate towards you. I absolutely hate people yet somehow a few people have managed to stay my friends.</p>
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can I please get more answers! I am desperate, and cannot go on living without the ability to have friends.
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I think you are trying too hard and coming off as very desperate. People tend to feel uncomfortable about that, especially females.</p>
<p>Just be aloof. People like mystery and surprises. It’s up to you to practice this balancing act of opening up yet not spilling everything out at once.</p>
<p>get the hell off of CC and go meet people. </p>
<p>throw your computer (not yourself) off of your balcony and delete your WoW account.</p>
<p>I see a lot of similarity in the postings of Lakrosse and PMVD. You need to stop over-analyzing things and get out and meet some REAL people.</p>
<p>Stop caring so much. No one cares about you being short as much as you do. Just give anyone who is nice and not boring a chance or keep waiting for the hot crew that may never show up. It’s up to you.
Oh yeah, there are no groups and cliques in college unless you’re trying to get into a frat. Everyone just talks to each other and some click with each other while others don’t.
Stop reading so much into the pecking order, appearances and arbitrary stuff like that. It does matter, but not to the extent that people here get worked up about.</p>
<p>i dont know why youre whining about hooking up with a fat or ugly chick. if youre not hooking up with anybody, maybe they may be on your level. stop looking to be freinds with people who arent like you or arent on your level, but seem to be doing a lot of “fun” stuff. hang out with other nerds if youre a nerd. im not saying you cant be freinds with different groups and types of people, but why not try and meet ppl who do the same stuff you do. if you are a WoW fanatic, go find the nerds who play it at 3am on campus.
if youre meeting acquaintences who are just staying that way and never becoming real freidns you go out with, try being blunt about it. say Hey, i dont know too many people here, can you introduce me to some of your friends? if the person seems open to it, then you can be friends. if you guys don’t click, you wont get a good response. just be yourself stop worrying about it. youre overanalyzing yourself and ppl really pick up on insecurities</p>