any advice for someone in a pickle?

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<p>so is "nice guy"... you could be with a cocky jerk, but you have perceived him to be "nice"</p>

<p>Umm....wait. Celeb is 2 hours ahead of you The_Who right? So wouldn't 10:00 her time actually be 8:00 in yours? Not...1AM lol.</p>

<p>You can still stay up:D:D:D</p>

<p>haha. Only Diana is smart enough to conquer differing time zones lol! :D</p>

<p>^^^ Haha...why yes, yes I am LOL:D</p>

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<p>That is true. My mistake.</p>

<p>I've got a question for all you girls out there (and guys if you know the answer): why do girls often play with their hair when talking with a guy she has a crush on? I mean, are you (girls) aware of it? Why? Why? Why? OMGosh this is driving me nuts.. lol</p>

<p>I don't play with my hair lol, well not when I'm talking to a crush anyways. I never knew this either. :D</p>

<p>How do you know you're not playing with your hair?! You could be doing it without realizing lol...</p>

<p>I have only seen the "playing with hair" stuff in movies...as far as real life goes, I don't think I've noticed it. Girls usually are more giddy when they are talking to someone they like, so that extra spurt of energy might cause some to play with their hair, subconciously trying to detract the guy from sensing their extra energy, which she (to this point) only knows the reason for.</p>

<p>Well, I understand there are certain things that girls will do to get a guy to notice her or do when she likes a particular guy. For example, 'swinging' her hair, touching her hair, touching the guy, etc. How much of this would you say is conscious and how much would you say is sub-conscious? What are other hints to look for when in this type of situation? By the way, 311Griff, are you male or female?</p>

<p>P.S.- By the way, I can't really think of anything guys really do in particular. Can you think of some?</p>

<p>I'm a male. I think 90% is sub-conscious, learned by watching how girls on TV/Movies attract guys they like. You have to try and grasp the concept that they are uncontrollably injected with energy that takes even them by surprise when they are around a guy they have consciously decided they like, for whatever reason, and fidgeting is their initial response. Other hints? Does she seem to take special concern for you when you talk to her? But, in turn she seems to struggle with "normal talk" with you. Like, when you talk, she props up to be "all ears", and has a more attentive response to your statements. However, if you observe her around others, she's more relaxed and less attentive, etc.</p>

<p>I'll bump this up incase anyone is interested.</p>