Ask an Exeter Student

<p>Hey,</p>

<p>So I remember last year at this time, I was totally freaking out about admissions and stuff and there were some alumni CCers who came and answered questions about their respective schools, so feel free to ask any questions about Exeter and Exeter life! </p>

<p>Good luck,</p>

<p>thingslost</p>

<p>P.S. I have a question for you! A lot of the CCers from last year ended up really good friends (especially the ones that went to the same school, but even some that didn't), and I was wondering if there's like a "group" of the same people on CC this year. Like people that are always on CC or you talk to each other outside of CC, etc... Thanks!</p>

<p>Look on my thread under prep school chances about 10-11 applicants, they are pretty much the most active this year.</p>

<p>Go CC alums!</p>

<p>We had a nice little get together on the Exeter campus this summer before school started. Very nice to see things come full circle like that. I’d definitely encourage arranging something similar when it becomes appropriate to do so.</p>

<p>That’d be cool, assuming I get in and all. I already feel like we share a bond though. Although this morning we had a huge lecture in school about meeting people in real life from online so you’re encourging me to break the stupid honor pledge :wink: I guess you’re setting a bad example! Did the majority of the ‘group’ get admitted then? Are a large portion of people at HADES CCers?</p>

<p>No, no - a lot of people at Andover have never even heard of CC. There are a few of us, though. I know of four CCers from last year who are at Andover this year. I never see them because we’re in different grades, but it’s awesome to be here with them.</p>

<p>Well, I wouldn’t say “the majority” were admitted to their top choices, but a fair number of the group were and I’d actually say most were successful at at least one school. The success rate at CC is definitely greater than that in “the wild.” You can get a feel for this here: <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/665444-clean-official-boarding-decisions-applicant-stats-ecs.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-admissions/665444-clean-official-boarding-decisions-applicant-stats-ecs.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>Thanks, I looked at that when I first joined but didn’t really know what I was looking at or have much of a starting point so I’ll relook at it. From Exeter/Andover how often would I have the opportunity to visit family in Cambridge and how easy would it be?</p>

<p>Cambridge is pretty close, so, theoretically, you could go most weekends (although I wouldn’t advise it). This, of course, would be contingent upon having someone drive you there.</p>

<p>If I were to be accepted into Andover, I wouldn’t go every weekend just occasionally. Driving would be hard although I could probably catch the train into Boston and then out to Cambridge? Ah, who cares about the specifics I need to get admitted first. Thanks for the help.</p>

<p>thingslost, how many 9th and 10th graders date?</p>

<p>It’s kind of cool knowing all these people on CC and being really active in talking to eachother. We should arrange a time when everyone gets on to CC one day (though that might cause a computer crash) :)</p>

<p>How much work do students get, on average, a night? honestly.
Is it extremely hard- like more than they let on?
How would it be for 4 year students? 'cause my sister is warning me against applying to Exeter for 9th grade because she says its a lot for 4 years.</p>

<p>Going to Andover, I think I can help answer some of these. Your workload will depend on your course load - shocker, right? And let me tell you, there’s a real diversity of scheduling. A lot of the freshmen I know at Andover take mostly 100-level classes, but there are quite a few who have Math 380 and even French 600 squeezed in. Taking just 100 level courses (which is not a bad thing at all and still sets students up to graduate with attractive paper stats) generally assures that students will be in bed in time for the freshmen-only lights out - 11pm. Once you factor in sports (which all students are required to participate in at Andover, although I don’t think there’s a requirement at Exeter) and meals, this usually means that freshmen work is supposed to take no longer than four to five hours. Of course, things look a little less rosy when you throw in classes higher than the 100 level…</p>

<p>As for not applying as a freshmen because four years of work would be too hard to handle, my rationale would be completely the opposite. Go as a freshmen - so that in Upper year the work doesn’t smack you right between the eyes the way it has at Andover. Remember, freshman year is designed around integrating the new students into the community - facilitating the making of friends and the like. This is easier with less work.</p>

<p>Could you post up your grades that you gave them when you applied? and the ECs you did and everything? And what’s it like there?</p>

<p>I am applying for Exeter and I heard that teachers assign 45 minutes or less each night. Also (just a little extra tidbit), my tour guide told me that in math 30-50% of your grade is based on participation.</p>

<p>detrombone: A lot, each other, not so much. For some reason the prep class dates a lot, and I’m sure the lowers do too. Not a lot of preps date lowers though, but lowers date uppers. There’s almost a certain stigma attached to being a prep, but at the same time, 4-year seniors have their own little traditions that the rest of the senior class miss out on. Plus the teachers sort of baby the preps (we get less work).</p>

<p>rad-in-plaid: Honestly? It takes me anywhere from 2-4 hours to do my work. It’s not too bad, especially if you do work during your frees. And again, when you’re a senior, you’ll be thankful that you were a prep. It’s easier to transition, plus you get to take a lot of classes only preps can take. For fall term, preps take Junior Studies instead of English, which basically is like an introduction to the school. Also, preps get to take easier elective classes. Also, like Tomthecat said, it depends on your workload. Exeter’s courses are slightly different than Andover’s but they’re similar. We do have a sports requirement, for preps if you aren’t in a sport you’re in Prep Spaz, which is where you get to try a bunch of different sports. When you’re not a prep, you can take club sports (which is similar to Spaz except you only do one per term instead of two or more). I have a friend who had a really easy Bio teacher last term, her elective was music theory, she already speaks the language she’s taking fluently, plus her math was a 100 level course, so she had almost no work. But I have a slightly harder course load, I’ve got an accelerated language class (2 years in one), 311 math (okay, for some reason the math numbers are really different at andover. I think their Calculus BC is like 595 or something and at Exeter it’s 431, so it’s kind of different but anyways), 200-level Religion, and English and Bio, so I have quite a bit more work than her. Still, I finish my work at around 11. (oh Tomthecat mentioned lights-out. At exeter it’s 11pm for everyone, but nobody enforces it. Some dorms do (my one friend has to turn off his light at 11, and then opens it again later), but most don’t care. For my dorm it basically means that you’ve just got to stop yelling in the hallways and being loud) And it also depends on how fast one works. Oh and at Exeter, you don’t have to take History except for Upper year (American History) and 3 other terms of history. So some people take a year of history prep year, and a year of history upper year, and they don’t take history lower or senior year, so I’m not sure how the Andover schedule-ing works, if they’ve got more/less classes because I heard they have to take History for 3 years? Please dispel this myth if it is wrong! Oh, also, if you are taking private lessons for an instrument, that also takes away time, and ensembles as well. Plus clubs and other extracurriculars, but the great thing about boarding school is that it teaches you how to manage your time so you can do a little bit of everything.</p>

<p>Urbanflop: It’s supposed to be 50 minutes or less, but honestly, how long will it take you read 20 pages and write a one page response? Less than 50 minutes hopefully… Also, I’m not sure who your tour guide was, but I’m not quite sure about that. I guess it depends on the teacher. Especially for Math, because my current math teacher give grades based on test scores (because the teachers don’t check the homework, everyone just puts one problem up on the board, so many people (haha me) don’t do their homework and sort of figure it out the next day on the board) and little for participation. Say your test average is 95, your teacher won’t lower you to 90 because you didn’t speak up in class, but if you’re average was 89, then he/she might raise you up to 90 because of participation. Also, math is really hard to do harkness on (relative to other classes) because at Exeter we don’t have text books, we’ve just got math problems that the teachers make up. You’re supposed to derive the formulas from the problems and not memorize things, which can make things complicated, but it also gives you a better grasp of the concept. In my experience, it depends on the teacher. Nothing as large as 30-50 percent, but participation is important. I think less so for math and science, and more so for humanities. Also, each teacher has little pet peeves and quirks. My last history teacher really wanted students to cite the text, so in his mind, class participation was a lot of text citing, but for my bio teacher, she talked a lot, so it was more as long as you asked questions/answered questions. Wouldn’t that be nice though? If math was 30-50% participation? I would just bs my way to a good grade instead of actually working. ;)</p>

<p>Thanks for the awesome reply thingslost. :)</p>

<p>Thanks Thingslot that was really helpful.</p>

<p>Oh, and sorry, I don’t really feel comfortable sharing my stats on CC (I didn’t do a Chances thread either). Also, it varies a lot (a lot a lot a lot!), and although it may be comforting to have a chances thread, the people posting on it don’t know much better than you, so it’s better to just remain anonymous!</p>

<p>That’s fine, Im not doing a chance thread either :). What do you like best about Exeter and also boarding life in general?</p>

<p>Hm… I really love Harkness, it’s such a fun way to learn and it makes things a lot easier, although it does take some getting used it. I also like how it’s such a different experience than the school I previously went to. It sounds crazy, but I love going to classes from 8-6 (yeah, okay, you get frees, so it’s not actually from 8-6, but still) plus wednesday and saturday afternoon frees (unless you’re on varsity/jv/dance company/mainstage production but even then you still get like half the afternoon free so it feels like there’s a weekend in the middle of the week.) :slight_smile: Things that are specific to Exeter… Hmm… I love how the dorms are of all grades, that way you get the meet students in other years too, but I guess a lot of schools are like that. Oh, here’s one. I love love love the dress code. It doesn’t really affect girls (yeah I’m a girl) but it’s so much fun dressing up. :slight_smile: Plus, I don’t know if guys realize this (I’m sure they do), but they are ten times better looking in the dress code. Also, I’ve heard that it’s nice for guys to not worry about what to wear, all they have to do is find a shirt, a tie, and some sort of jacket (plus pants!!! don’t forget pants!). I love living in a dorm. I live in an all singles dorm, so in my opinion, it’s the best of both worlds. You get to have your own space, but you’re never lonely because everyone has a single room, so you just go bug whoever is next door. Plus all the preps are in one hallway so you get to know the people in your grade too. It feels like a giant sleepover but with work and less crazy. Also, the classes are great! They’re so much fun! I’m taking a religion class right now that I just love. At Exeter you get to try so many different things; it gives you a chance to really branch out and find out what you like and what you’re good at. Since getting to Exeter, I started so many things that I wouldn’t have gotten the chance to try at home. One important thing to remember is to try new things. I know it sounds cliche and boring, but it’s so true. Don’t be afraid to try out for a sport if you’ve never done it, or audition for the mainstage. I think that’s all I can think of for now, but feel free to ask more questions. Happy holidays!</p>