<p>^ i like that</p>
<p>bump bump bump</p>
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<p>I think it is the universal truth.
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<p>Ditto. Stop making rules for yourself and be yourself. Who gives a **** if some girl ends up being your friend instead? There's like 500 other ones out there. Be confident, assertive, and relax. Life isn't about getting laid anyway. For some guys I guess it is. And if you take the time to get to know a lot of people there, then you will be fine. Something will come eventually.</p>
<p>I think there is a big confusion going on here. Some people are talking about a) random hook-ups (people who are not looking for long term relationships) and others trying to b) to develop a long term dating relationship in college. From what my friends tell me, most frosh/soph don't really get into the whole dating thing until their jun/sen years. They rather explore and settle down later. To quote my friend "it's the youth of your life. Regret your actions later than regretting what you didn't do"</p>
<p>Btw I think of dating and hooking up as a game. It's easier to picture when you think of a game. There's a lot of different elements involved that can create vastly different outcomes.</p>
<p>I agree that most freshmen who go into college single, don't look to date freshmen year. Some 2nd semester. But I think by soph. year people start to form relationships.</p>
<p>My question for the thread is about girls specifically and in college there is so much freedom and the ability to see so many different people, that how can anyone be sure their significant other (whatever you want to call it) isn't showing the same feelings for another person? It seems to be almost an impossible issue, especially at big schools.</p>
<p>You shouldn't go into a relationship constantly looking to make sure you're not being cheated on, because in real life, you can't observe/control all of your "significant other"'s actions. Just try to form relationships with people who are worth it in the first place -- people who you trust. (Of course, you may be wrong about some people, but that's life.)</p>
<p>awwwwwww.
just be really sweet
and try to be nice and perceptive</p>
<p>i agree that many pretty girls are insecure. I've been wondering the same thing myself. I'm a girl btw. I came up w/ a hypothesis that "ugly" girls have nothing to lose, so they just express themselves with everything they've got. Pretty girls in another hand, feel they have to keep themselves pretty. But thats' only part of the many unknown reasons....</p>
<p>Most of the relationships i see around here are consisted of one ugly and one good looking, doesn't mtater which one's guy, which one's girl. What's stranger to me is that the uglier one in the relationships that i know are always the person with the worse or bad personalities.</p>
<p>I think both guys and girls are picky in different ways. However, i think guys like girls more easily. Also guys tend to go the easy route. I don't really see a lot of guys who go for girls they can't get. They're too "lazy" as far as I can see.</p>
<p>Just be yourself. Just because most girls like funny guys doesn't mean it's a requirement and you feel bad about yourself that you're not funny. I personally don't like funny guys more than friends. I have a lot of funny friends, but can never think of them in the romantic way. I like intellectual guys, the ones who can think deeply and can talk about a serious topic for a long time. But he should understand humor and be easy going or whatever.</p>
<p>My point is...just be happy with what you have unless you have a bad personality u have to fix. Don't conform to what most girls like, because a girl that like you for who you really are would matter more.</p>
<p>I saw so many guys who used to be funny and immature became the total opposite when they got g/f. I don't know why and how the relationship still works. It's like they're faking it.</p>