Being shy a turn off?

<p>i like guys more on the quiet side but opens up once you get to know them. and i just describe myself :x</p>

<p>i don't like shy girls who never talk to you in real life besides on AIM/MSN or can't carry on conversations...!!! </p>

<p>I absolutely hate awkward silences when talking with the girl I like. Makes me feel inept or something. But of course i also don't like girls who flirt with every guy they see, although i'd still pick this trait over super-shy-uber-mysterious-girls.</p>

<p>irrelevant PM sent your way</p>

<p>oh and about the shyness thing, it can be cute to an extent but beyond that it may be annoying</p>

<p>well i'm screwed...i'm shy. I wonder why girls like extroverts. Now that's annoying.</p>

<p>shy girls that are good-looking are attractive</p>

<p>Well, I'm a girl and I can tell you that shy guys are fine as long as they're nerds and their IQ/talents top mine... It's kinda fun "unlocking" the mysteries of a shy enigma sometimes. Just so long as he has an attractive personality inside, and isn't shy to the point where he'd urinate in his pants if I were to say hi. 0_o
On the other hand, asinine shy guys are a no no. For sure. (even if he is the "hottest" guy ever <em>scoffs at the word</em>)</p>

<p>Yes, I love nerds. <3</p>

<p>I'm the type of guy who is shy and usually says nothing when I'm around people I don't know. I do open up when I get to know the people...unless I'm around a girl I'm attractive to, then I'm an awkward idiot.</p>

<p>^I'm the female version of you.</p>

<p>it depends on people's opinions. For me, I don't know why but I usually attracted to guys that are shy, may be having a loner look. I guess because they appear mysterious and sometimes they are easier to approach or talk to.</p>

<p>It also kinda depends, at least to me, how shy they are, really, to what degree. Shy could mean that they don't talk much to people, or shy could also be that they just don't offer a lot of information about themselves upfront. </p>

<p>Hence the whole mystery-wanting to learn more about him/her thing.</p>

<p>Shy as in mysterious and just kind of awkward... soooo cute. I think it makes me like those guys even more. </p>

<p>Shy as in you never ever talk to girls ever... BAD.</p>

<p>totally, cowgirlatheart. totally. =]</p>

<p>I'd consider myself uber-shy='(</p>

<p>Yeah... why has this thread been bumped after several months, twice?</p>

<p>man, where are all of these girls who like shy guys? all the girls at my school go for the popular guys...and me being quiet (im shy until i get to know you) hasnt worked out so well...</p>

<p>one can hope for college tho!</p>

<p>A lot of girls have asked me out, but i would usually react in an akward way (you know, just smilin and turnin away) and that's the reason why i've never had a gf. Oh well, i don't like girls anyways-.- (jk)</p>

<p>are you serious? you like guys then?</p>

<p>im shy until i get to know a person then im normal.</p>

<p>Can't You Ssee The (jk) Sweetdreams@#!</p>