<p>My best guy friend likes me..but I only see him as an older brother :/</p>
<p>The guy I like..has noo idea I like him..we're friends..but not super close..</p>
<p>My best guy friend is mad at me because he thinks I led him on! He won't talk to me..</p>
<p>What do I do?</p>
<p>I thought that the guy that you were fond of portrayed affection towards you as well?</p>
<p>This is why I don’t get involved in relationships.</p>
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<p>I ended things with him weeks ago…I thought you knew…? Things kind of worked out though…he’s one of my best friends now.</p>
<p>The guy I like now, is my age.</p>
<p>Trumpetgrl, I obviously don’t want to sound critical or anything, but there’s something that you shouldn’t present yourself in: ■■■■■.</p>
<p>Ahh, thanks Hopeful…</p>
<p>No, I did not know that. Well, perhaps you can establish common interests with him and then build upon them.</p>
<p>Hopeful, she’s not a ■■■■■.</p>
<p>Nahh…I don’t feel like building a relationship…at the moment…</p>
<p>I do want my best friend back though…</p>
<p>Did you reject him outright?</p>
<p>I think you should give him some time.</p>
<p>Well, we’ve been friends for a while…and so he normally txts me all the time. Recently, he started flirting in his txt messages…and I didn’t flirt back…but he kept flirting…so I kept txting him but at night time when I let him go I said “Well, I have to go…love you best friend!” [so that we would take the hint, if he hadn’t taken the previous oes]…I’m guessing he didn’t like the love you best friend part…</p>
<p>Is that considered rejecting him outright?</p>
<p>If you don’t feel compelled to develop your relationship with him, why is that situation a current issue? A relationship in this case is not necessarily a romantic relationship, but rather a friend relationship.</p>
<p>In terms of your other friend though, I’d suggest that you enable him to process his current situation. Perhaps within time you’ll be able to confront him.</p>
<p>I will probably talk to him more, I do want to be friends…but more just seems like asking for too much at the moment.</p>
<p>That’s what I’m referring to in terms of developing your friendship. You should build upon common interests. Is there a club that you both find preferable?</p>
<p>This guy has been crushing on my friend since middle school (almost four years now) and continually sends hints (texts, disguised “dates”, asking to homecoming etc).</p>
<p>She just made it clear that she was not going to have a romantic relationship with him (turned him down, didn’t flirt back, etc) and he finally accepted it. He’s still good friends with her though.</p>
<p>Most likely your friend will not decide to end your relationship with him just because you “rejected” him. He’s probably just a little miffed/embarrassed that you didn’t return his flirting.</p>
<p>I’m referring to the other friend.</p>
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<p>Actually…no. I’m fully into band and track. He is fully into baseball. I saw him yesterday after school, but our interaction was brief. [He had just gotten out of baseball practice and I had just finished running a mile]</p>
<p>@Fairy: ohh okay, hopefully he’ll come around…There is a part of this that you don’t know…I’ll pm you.</p>
<p>How do you know him?</p>
<p>In english class, we had to work on a group project that required groups of four. Our group had to consist of atleast one boy and one girl. My friend wanted to work with me[female], then I asked one of these guys to work with us and his friend[the guy I like] just happened to want to tag along as well. We finished our work early and got off topic. He and I got into discussions about many random things and he asked for my number at the end of class and he’s been txting me since…but I think that he thinks of me as more of a friend.</p>
<p>Well, perhaps you will be enabled to work with him on an alternative project.</p>
<p>I guess…but I doubt it will go anywhere :b oh welll…end off threeadd :)</p>
<p>… You think that’s messed up have you ever accidentally hooked up with one of your best friend’s older sister at a party? (I say accidentally because I did not know it was her at the time, things were awkward the next day…)</p>