<p>'Scuse me. I mean the 100th post.</p>
<p>And the day before yesterday.</p>
<p>Oh…well she may have left and just happened to come back after I posted. When I posted, the little CC logo was white instead of yellow, so I don’t know. </p>
<p>And I really meant what I said last night, you’ve been more helpful than most of my “real friends” by simply listening, despite having no idea who you are.</p>
<p>Yeah, but even though I don’t like how much he txts me some times, I’m still kind of drawn towards him…</p>
<p>@Nullisecundus ^ Well, yes I’m really good at personal things like that working with others.</p>
<p>My issue concerns with getting in a good relationship with girls. I have almost no close friends in High School (except for my real friends, but the girls don’t usually “love me” like they say to their other close related people. Heck, I can’t even tell if I’ll ever find mine in college. I feel like girls just don’t understand sometimes. Being nice and help them out does not even work. I had a friend of mine who had guitar with me last year and she says if I have an “affection” (which I do), I can get a girlfriend.</p>
<p>■■■… I don’t even have the GPA/SAT scores to go to a top college to establish that character socially.
I’m dead better off going to a State college.</p>
<p>" Yeah, but even though I don’t like how much he txts me some times, I’m still kind of drawn towards him… "</p>
<p>It’s your choice. If you are confused about whether you’re better off with him or without him, try to avoid him for a couple of days and see how you feel. If it still feels awkward, tell him nicely to stop the random repetitive texts (he might listen, so idk). Someone who has been in a relationship can break off and become really good friends… which is better than separating from your mate afterwards (if it ever happens).</p>
<p>@NulliSecundus: I’m sorry about your ex 
That sucks but the best thing for you to do now is try and revert your focus somewhere else. Perhaps school…a sport…a hobby. Just remember that in HS what a girl wants changes with time so don’t blame yourself. There are so many things that could be running through her head. PM me if you want nymore advice.</p>
<p>I’ve been reading through this thread and think I may be able to add a different perspective on things since I’m a gay guy and have given tons of advice to girlfriends and guy friends.</p>
<p>yaay! a gay guy! ;)</p>
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<p>I like hopeful’s idea of seeing how you feel if you don’t text him for a while. One of the (few) good things about texting is that you don’t have to respond right away…or at all. Do you mind my asking how long this has been going on?</p>
<p>@Revenge - Yeah I’m starting to become OK with it. It still hurts sometimes, and I still have feelings for her, but it’s not completely taking over my thoughts the way it did for a while. I’d like to get back with her, but that’s starting to seem more and more unlikely. It kills me when I see her in the hall and she doesn’t say hi. </p>
<p>I’m starting to be able to draw some positives out of it. For one, people come to me pretty often to talk to, and now I’ve had that experience. People would come to me and I’d say what I thought was good to say, but I have a MUCH better understanding of that feeling. On the flip side, I understand more about what it is to be in a relationship like that one. I’m so glad that I was able to share the moments that I did, and to have been able to feel what I did. I wouldn’t take that back for anything. I’ve also been able to find so much beauty since then, being able to understand the feelings that people are putting into songs or literature. It’s made me a better person, I guess.</p>
<p>Only a few days. It’s sooo, bc I remember thinking it wasn’t even possible bc of Meadow36 & TCBH’s advice and that night he txted me like 10minutes after I got off CC and things kind of started there. I still like him I’m just not sure If I like him as much as I used to.</p>
<p>Nullisecundus, can you advice me on this: " My issue concerns with getting in a good relationship with girls. I have almost no close friends in High School (except for my real friends, but the girls don’t usually “love me” like they say to their other close related people. Heck, I can’t even tell if I’ll ever find mine in college. I feel like girls just don’t understand sometimes. Being nice and help them out does not even work. I had a friend of mine who had guitar with me last year and she says if I have an “affection” (which I do), I can get a girlfriend.</p>
<p>■■■… I don’t even have the GPA/SAT scores to go to a top college to establish that character socially.
I’m dead better off going to a State college. "</p>
<p>First, don’t take anyone on here’s advice too seriously (including my own). None of us know exactly what was said, what tone it was said in, what the situation was, all those details, which actually can make a difference. We’re just going off the details we can get. </p>
<p>Anyway, if you think you might still like him, then I think you owe it to yourself a bit to keep talking to him. You never know what could happen, and if you quit before you’re sure it’s over you’ll wonder what could have been. Just my two cents.</p>
<p>^^awww 
I’m so sorry, It’ll be otay</p>
<p>You and Warts should share an advice thread</p>
<p>Warts has these problems too?</p>
<p>Anyways, I sort of gave up on the girl I liked. Too much time in the friend zone + it’s getting worse</p>
<p>@Hopeful - I wish I could, but I’m kind of in a similar situation, haha. I had a lot of people that I thought were really close to me, and when I need them a lot of them weren’t there. I feel like I just got lucky and sort of tripped into that last one. </p>
<p>But the thing is, to get that girl you’re going to have to take the leap of faith somewhere. If you’re like me (I’m generally pretty shy), it’s the toughest thing to do but girls usually won’t say no. I waited a really long time and the perfect time never came, so eventually I had to just spit it out. I usually don’t like girls to know when I’m interested in them, but they’ll have to find out eventually if you’re ever going to date them, right? You can PM me if you like</p>
<p>Whan, is she going to the same school as you?</p>
<p>No, I think she was referring to the designated advice thread.</p>
<p>Yeah… She also lives like 5 houses down >_<
And I’ve known her for like 5 years</p>
<p>No, is she going to the same college as you?</p>
<p>Don’t know
She applied to Stanford as well as a few others schools I have, but not Early Action to Stanford.</p>
<p>Whan, you’ll find someone in the Bay Area :] </p>
<p>I heard they have girls. I’ve seen them myself!</p>
<p>Well, I think that’s an important aspect. </p>
<p>If she does end up going to the same college as you, the relationship might be worth pursuing.</p>
<p>Do you know if she likes you though? If she’s made it clear to you that she acknowledges you as just a friend then I would suggest that you avoid devoting more time towards starting a relationship with her.</p>