Child very apprehensive about leaving home - not really engaged in college process

@NCalRent thanks! He is definitely open to applying to some places so he will do that (and I will likely help him through the process). We all agreed that it will be good to have choices come next April. For now, he is working on at least maintaining his current grades (even if he ends up with all Bs this semester, his overall GPA will only drop to a 3.6 range which is fantastic in our book - we have never pushed for perfection). And he will sit for the ACT in April and SAT in May. We’re trying to work on small goals at a time. I do believe that SFSU may have an open house over his spring break so we maybe will take a look there if he feels like it.