<p>Hi I post a thread a few weeks back and I apologize for not responding to all of the helpful advices I got from the parents on here, and the few pm I got. I just want to say even though I haven't reply, I read each and every person reply, and as such I decided to be a little more honest and more open this time around.</p>
<p>My other threads was entitle "how do I make friends with your son and daughter" in case anyone miss it.</p>
<p>Well I like to fill in all of the missing piece and how I been doing lately.</p>
<p>When I'm at college, I have this feeling of utter loneliness. It is not something that happen rarely, as I haven't had a decent social life since freshman and sophomore year of high school before my big split. Ever since I was force to move high school during my junior year, I have become somewhat off a social outcast, which is something I'm not proud off. It felt like the world just turn upside down for me, and everything I had were lost. I lost the chance to have a girlfriend, someone who was nice, passionate, caring, and loyal and every time I'm with her, I cherish each and every moment. </p>
<p>I don't think I have ever been myself ever since the big split, I couldn't do half the things I use to, and have revered back to being quiet and timid, and college has just become high school for me. It has completely overwhelm me, and I'm not talking about the school work here. Someday it feel much worst than high school because I don't have a "safe spot" like my own room at home to hide, and it is becoming very emotional and depressing.</p>
<p>In one of my lecture class, they were playing a song by Billy Joel about OBAMA first speech in the video, and my eyes became watery. I don't know whether the song was sad or beautiful, but it made me think so much about my life, how much I have fallen off the planet, how I lack so many human quality, that it is just unreal. What kind of person goes to college with the goal of waking out of bed and surviving each and every day? Everyday for me is cold and brutal, the large numbers of PDA, the love for one another, the large group of friends, the laughter and smile outside, and the knowledge that they won't have to worry about eating alone, worry about who to hang out with, worry what to do when their done with all their school work. I lack all these things, I'm starting to question my existence, and how I feel so introvert even though I'm around people outside.</p>
<p>I saw my school off campus referral specialist and I feel that it might be my best option. However I did to pay 200 dollars deductibles and 10 dollars co-pay afterward, which 3 off my school books alone cost around 100+ dollars. I just don't know if these therapist will help me, I have too many issue, to many problems majority surrounding my childhood. But I feel that I will never be "normal", never been like everyone else without their help, and money is just too tight right now. </p>
<p>I guess the majority of my self-hatred and self-doubt has to do with the typical stereotype, and because of this I fear the way people treat and react toward me. I really want to be like everyone else, but I was raise up in a strict religious upbring, and how can I reverse the whole process? I know I can't alone, don't know if its even possible, but I can't live like this either, and I just can't live with myself.</p>
<p>I feel pathetic, ashame, doubtful like an Alien venturing into the unknown. I don't see myself like everyone else, I feel cold, someday emotionless, and just seem like a waste of space. Most of all I feel unloved, and its is such a horrible feeling. There is no invisible compass to point me in the right direction, there is no idea "easy button", and maybe what even worst is there is no support by my family what so ever on any issues. Its funny how they treat me like an adult by not support or helping me pay for my therapy, yet when I'm at home they treat me like a kid.</p>
<p>Right now I feel hopeless, I don't matter to anyone, no one know I exist, I am too troublesome to befriend, to mundane to talk to, and the list goes on. Every walk outside is a painful and struggling step for step, and it seem I just want to sleep my day away.</p>
<p>I want help, I need help, I want love, I need love, I want friendship, I lead friendship, but of course will it ever happen is another thing.</p>
<p>Sorry I am not too good with grammar</p>
<p>Feel free to ask me any question you might have</p>