<p>JinFX...I can tell right there from what you said that you haven't been with many girls.</p>
<h1>1 Rule (and don't let girls tell you otherwise): Put yourself above girls...don't treat them like they are on a pedastal...they are humans too and treat them like your guy friends..to a certain extent.</h1>
<p>Try it and you'll see what happens. When they see that you aren't on your knees begging for them, they run to grab your attention. Girls want all the focus on them, and when it isn't there they fight for it. When they get it, things get boring. Thats why you don't get clingy...NEVER get clingy. Don't call the girl up everyday. Keep busy - get a life. I know from experience. One girl I had I eventually got clingy and it didn't turnout too well. Don't see each other too often either so it keeps things exciting and always mix up the dates. See each other 1-2 times a week and don't talk TOO much on the phone like I see some of my friends doing. </p>
<p>Go out and have fun with your friends, keep hitting the books, and keep hitting the gym. Don't make her your #1 priority - girls just want you to make them your #1...never become desperate or obsessive. Its a turn-off for a girl because it doesn't keep things interesting.</p>
<p>And lastly...always keep her on her feet - what I mean by this is...don't become predictable to her...in and out of the bed. Once you become predictable, what is there to really look forward to. And at our age...when a girl says she loves you...just keep in mind that its not real "love".</p>
<p>No, i'm not saying that. I'm saying...girls in general, for the most part, love attention and when they don't get it they crave it. All my advice is for once you are in a relationship. My friends that are girls have agreed w/ me on this that spending too much time w/ their boyfriends can get boring. They preferred seeing each other less to keep the excitement up. But if you can manage to see each other everyday and not lose interest, good for you. This is just from my perspective. </p>
<p>I think this whole cocky/funny thing is being extremely overrated. It's more a self-confident/funny kind of thing... no need to bash on other people to be liked. There's a fine line between self-assurance and arrogance.</p>
<p>(That said, the so called "easy" and "stupid" girls do appreciate the whole cocky thing, but after having a couple of these girls, they really lose their appeal fast.)</p>
<p>i think by cocky they mean self-confident. it's a much nicer word for the same thing.</p>
<p>it's okay to (jokingly) make fun of girls [not in mean or embarressing ways, and not in public]. it goes along with treating them like regular people. if you treat them like goddesses who are flawless, they will not like you.</p>
<p>confidence is key. and moderation. (parikhs style)</p>
<p>you guys took what I said the wrong way...what I mean by "cocky" is...knowing and showing you're content w/ yourself, but not acting like you're full of yourself. But inside you know what other people think / say about you doesn't mean anything to you. The cocky&funny...is where you bust girl's chops, while making sure THEY KNOW you are joking around. You have to do it a certain way...you don't hold a serious face and say it..and you don't do it out of nowhere..you build up to it. Break the ice, let them feel comfortable and have fun. Show them that you aren't so serious about life...laugh at yourself..don't be uptight about things. By adding humour you're showing that you're fun to be around. </p>
<p>None of this will happen until you are confident in yourself though...confidence is contagious - when you know you are confident and are fully convinced of it...people will see it and believe you are too. People will respect you and girls will too. </p>
<p>By cocky/funny I'm not saying put other people down...actually thats the TOTAL opposite of what I'm saying. Cocky/funny makes people want to hang out w/ you...you make fun conversation and keep people interested...you have them laughing. </p>
<p>Being totally cocky is putting people down...its being the ******* who sorta bullies people.</p>
<p>Being cocky/funny is the "nice guy" but with a unique touch. The "nice guy" is typically stepped on because well he is nice because he doesn't want to come off as being a jerk...he's shy and says what people want to hear. </p>
<p>The cocky/funny guy is nice, but also does what HE wants...not what people want. He has his own mind and is a leader..has people following him and wanting to be w/ him.</p>
<p>But I don't know why I'm giving advice on here to you guys, because most of you won't take it lol.</p>
<p>be confident. when thinking of going down the 'cocky' road, make sure your act is natural and that you actually have SOMETHING to be cocky about.</p>