<p>Ok. I was recently told by a girl, for whom I am/was completely nuts, that she has no interest in pursuing a relationship with me. Does anyone have any advice as to how to cope with this? The self-help/dating advice sites I've looked at are of NO help to me at all.</p>
<p>deal with it and if u cant then slap her upside the mouth cuz she isnt good enough for u anyways</p>
<p>She’s a moron who has no taste, so she’ll be the one who ends up spreading AIDS in a prostitution ring.</p>
<p>Yeah it stinks when that happens. Happened many many times to me. Here’s my advice:</p>
<p>Get over it. THERE ARE OTHER FISH IN THE SEA, AND THE SEA IS VERY VERY LARGE. Don’t spend hours looking on the Internet trying to find out how to cope, don’t spend hours moping, etc. Just go hang out with friends, go outside, do something. Ask someone else out. Just enjoy life.</p>
<p>Looking on the internet is just a waste of time;
you probably already figured that out though, lol.
Yes, there are plenty of people who would love to be with you,
this is a humongous world, with humongous amounts of people,
some you don’t even know about,
travel the world & just learn to love different things,
learn to cope with it by doing other things you love doing,
like scuba diving, watching movies, skiing, just don’t waste yourself just 'cuz ONE girl shows no interest.</p>
<p>Does she even know you that well? Were you even friends with her? && don’t think about it too much either; & most definately, never get clingy because it creeps people out.</p>
<p>@secret asian easier said than done. sometimes a girl just seems right for you, perfect. And that means you can’t get over the fact that there are other fishes.</p>
<p>There are three billion something females in the world… yes, the sea is large… </p>
<p>then again… there are three billion something potential competitors as well… :)</p>
<p>What you need to do a) be reasonably attractive and b) social, find a cute girl in your grade who you can talk intimately with, and then make a pact with her that if by college time rolls around and you’re both still virgins, you do it. ;)</p>
<p>If they lose interest in you, then you two were obviously not meant to be in a relationship. I’ve learned this the hard way.</p>
<p>best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. end of story.</p>
<p>Oh better idea, kidnap her and force her to live in your basement.</p>
<p>I like blowing things up. Fire, loud noises, and the joy of destruction always help me handle rejection =)
Although I’ve only ever been rejected by a college and not a girl (probably due to only having asked one girl out)=P
And back to the point… Fire, fire is good for getting over any problem.</p>
<p>@theReach: Yes I know, trust me I’ve had that feeling. It makes you feel like ■■■■. But asking yourself what could have been, what did I do wrong, etc. for hours on end isn’t going to help at all, and it isn’t going to change things. This comes from experience. Realize that you just gave her the biggest opportunity in the world, which was to be with an awesome person like you, and she was blind enough to turn you down. Now why on earth would you want to be involved with someone like that?</p>
<p>Perhaps I was too blunt. But you should really try to find things to do that will take your mind off of it. I’m just trying to convince you that it’s not the end of the world.</p>
<p>Get over it. Seriously, it sounds harsh, but you have to start looking elsewhere.</p>
<p>Master the five finger knuckle shuffle… the art of one handed typing…</p>
<p>inb4 an hero</p>
<p>Is she white? Damn, i hope this doesnt happen with the white girl that I like!!!</p>
<p>■■■■ off, Vitare.</p>
<p>What is your problem?</p>
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<p>a ■■■■■■■■ too far</p>