Did I miss my chance?

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<p>This is a solution for you figure out what she thought about you, but this might adversely affect your friendship. Ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend, in fact, act as if you don't know that. And ask her out. And, it's important for you to conjure the fact that you don't know. </p>

<p>So, maybe start the conversation like: </p>

<p>"Remember how last time you asked me if I would like a girlfriend... well I thought about it, I was too shy then, but I think it'd be really cool for us to be together. Just for fun."</p>

<p>Best outcome: If she really like you, then she dumps her current boyfriend.
Good outcome: She tells you no because she has a boyfriend, but tells you have she did like you before.
Average outcome: She tells you no, and she tells you that she didn't like you.
Bad outcome: average outcome + weakening of friendship. (too awkward)</p>

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<p>that's not a good idea asking her out while you know she has a bf. You kinda insult her bf when you do that, and if she really likes him, she definitely won't think much of you after that.</p>

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<p>^ I know. But, what if he pretends that he doesn't know. And she doesn't know he knows.</p>

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<p>You missed your chance. It would be kind of a dick move and unfair to her to bring it up now. You just have to wait and be a friend. Everything happens for a reason and if you are meant to be with this girl, you will be. Just have a bit of faith and grow a pair next time.</p>

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<p>Don't ask her out or hit on her while she has a boyfriend. She'll lose her respect for you. Do you really want to be known as someone who tries to break up relationships?</p>