<p>Yes, I am sure that there is discrimination against Asians at the top schools. I know for a fact that at one top school, Yale, there is also age discrimination. I attended a recent regional Yale information session. The admissions rep clearly and repeatedly stated that the Yale admissions dean has a policy against admitting kids who do not turn 18 during their freshman year these kids tend to crash and burn. Age discrimination, stated in a rather arrogant, unkind manner. Those of you who have high achieving younger kids ready to apply to college, think twice before you send your $75 application fee to Yale they will not admit you. As Tokenadult rightly complains in post #2, Too bad we don’t have explicit statements from college admission committees about just what their policies are. this discriminatory practice is nowhere to be found on their admissions website.</p>
<p>I believe that elitism, discrimination, arrogance and prejudice are all wrong. They cause enormous amounts of pain and suffering. I believe that affirmative action is still necessary to ameliorate some of this pain and suffering. I am no expert on affirmative action, so Ill stop short of diagnosing its current problems or proposing solutions.</p>
<p>To their credit, I do believe that elite university admissions deans and staff struggle with their consciences on these issues, and make genuine attempts to do the right thing. Among them are some good people who understand that with their elite position comes responsibility to contribute to the betterment of society. I also am cynical enough to believe that at the end of the day, it is ultimately money and power that drives decisions on these matters. Its just not easy to bite the hand that feeds the elite. It seems to be a somewhat circular process: the elite has the power to create the definition of elite (that potential factor, that je ne sais quoi, the ability to pull in a six figure income, or whatever elusive quality is desired); the elite wannabes and some sectors of the public unquestioningly buy into this definition (and pay big sums to be included in it); the elite has the power to choose the next generation of elites who proceed to recycle a newer, improved version of the same definition; and so it goes. Perhaps this is human nature, Im not sure we seem to need our heroes and villains, and maybe needing our elite is part of that. Just another reflection of whats best and worst in human nature. There is nothing inherently wrong with individuals who join or are from the elite it is the choices they make and how they use their favored status that determines how others may judge their virtues.</p>
<p>Anyway, as concerns the practical realities of college admissions for my child, I liked best the question that Tokenadult posed in post #38 re: should admissions be based on abilities: Ability to do what? </p>
<p>My epiphany: After reading this entire thread, Im questioning whether the top elite schools have necessarily come up with the best definition of the best. I hope my daughter can find a college that will not only help her learn in a diverse community of talented people, but will support her ability to examine her own humanity and her relationships and responsibilities to her fellow human beings. For my money, my foremost hope is that she finds a college culture of tolerance and humility, a place where the ability that is most highly valued is the ability to have honest, considerate discourse about all aspects of the human condition. Colleges that practice any form of discrimination do have some elements of intolerance in their culture, and intolerant cultures can and do affect the learning and behaviors of their students. Although all humans are imperfect and there is probably some degree of intolerance everywhere, there probably are some colleges where the culture is more geared towards fighting and overcoming intolerance. I hope that my daughter gets to be a chosen student because she shows promising abilities to be a thoughtful, caring contributor to the betterment of her school and her society.</p>