<p>hopefully i dont get banned for this thread.</p>
<p>i think a lot of horny girls get looked down upon and called sluts when really they're just pursuing the same ends as most males our age. But for males it's somehow more of an accepted, even encouraged thing. For girls, there's still this double standard. Pretty freaking lame, if you ask me:)</p>
<p>i agree wholeheartedly.</p>
<p>yeah id never call a girl a slut but i really dont mind if a girl sleeps around, as long as she is safe about it.</p>
<p>hah hotpiece, u applying Yale too? Hope we both get in!</p>
<p>i def. don't sleep around or anything... but i am applying to Yale</p>
<p>As a guy, I feel you gotta have at least a bit of a cocksure attitude. It drives me insane when I see some of my friends (fellow males) let others walk over them, or be nice to everybody. When somebody's an idiot, you gotta let them know. When unfairly picked on, I'd rather see him go down in a hissy fit than to just "go along with it". And there's a difference between "being cool" and just letting people walk all over you.</p>
<p>I am in love with a jerk :(. We used to be so close. I thought he was going to ask me out...and then he got "popular" because he is such a hottie....and now he ignores me. When we would flirt, he would say things that were so degrading to women and he was sooo immature.</p>
<p>But I can't get over him.</p>
<p>oh! But I was in love with a NICE guy before this jerk. He was sweet and funny and very flirty and confident, but he was never ever a jerk. And then he got himself a girlfriend. And then I fell in love with that stupid jerk. ARGH!</p>
<p>um.</p>
<p>Don't you think that its a double standard that 'nice guys' are not assertive enough, but that its not okay for a 'jerk' to act on his hormones.</p>
<p>I don't get it.</p>
<p>If you don't want a horn dog, get a nice guy.</p>
<p>But of course a nice guy isn't assertive or confidant enough.</p>
<p>Seems like a double standard to me.</p>
<p>nice guys can be confident. and confident guys aren't necesarrily jerks or "horndogs"</p>
<p>Well we are really generalizing here. We are assuming that all "nice guys" are the quiet, sensitive, romantic type, when really, confident, masculine, funny guys, can be the nice guys too. </p>
<p>Girls want nice guys. End of story. But, it really varies on the TYPE of nice guy they prefer. I really like 'manly' men, so I usually go for the confident, slightly cocky, center or the party, type of nice guy. </p>
<p>Jerks are fun for a bit....and usually, they are only desired because of their looks, but as time will tell, those sexy abs and hunky pecs will soon go away...and all that will be left is some lonely jerk. So nice guys really do win out.</p>
<p>girls: is it true that you like guys with HUUGEEEEEEEEE *****es?</p>
<p>lol these are my fav type of threads</p>
<p>did ghandi have a wife?</p>
<p>"girls: is it true that you like guys with HUUGEEEEEEEEE *****es?"</p>
<p>I really don't know where this conception comes from. So go ahead and keep taunting each other for having small ones, but I really don't think I could care less (same with my friends.) And I'm not desperate either.</p>
<p>i think bein aware of how to use the object rather than its length is a more important aspect for the male. Kinda like a pinata...if ur an idiot u prolly need a pole thats absolutely beastly cuz ur gonna try to crush the pinata swinging wildly like an idiot. But, if ur smart and u have a baseball bat u can get the job done just fine. But having both wouldnt hurt either. MMMM Pinata candy.....</p>
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OMG GREATEST POST EVER!!!:)
<em>bows down and gives mad props</em></p>
<p>i agree with courage!!! but it doesn't hurt to be both skillful and...</p>
<p>Unfortunately some lack both.</p>