<p>Alright, so I was watching a King of Queens episode today and in it, Carrie said that Doug is a "nice" guy, which made him angry because he thought that women dont like "nice" guys, he said that they like guys who are rough and hard and stuff like that. And I have heard of this stuff before, but I was just wondering in general, do women like nice guys? I consider myself a nice guy, I respect women, treat them well, do what they want, never treat them wrongly, and always do that opening doors type of stuff. So girls dont like this stuff these days?</p>
<p>No! Gah! Please don't get that stupid idea in your little <em>nice</em> head! Plenty of girls love nice! Of course, a guy should take the lead a little bit. But there are also a multitude of girls who think it's a turn on when a guy treats her like complete ****. However, when those girls are through with those jerks, they will realize how nice it is to be with a man who possesses some social grace. The only problem is, when you invest in being a nice guy, you'll just have to wait a little longer for the returns.</p>
<p>In general, you should just be who you are...if a girl doesn't like you for that, then forget about her. Then again, if you're willing to be an ******* to get some tail, I'm sure you're not as nice as you think you are.</p>
<p>I, personally, like nice guys. I prefer to be comfortable with people, and nice guys are easier to approach.</p>
<p>I like nice guys but usually they get very suffocating, which makes me not like them as much.</p>
<p>so you like considerate guys that are not too overbearing?</p>
<p>A lot of girls say they like nice guys, which is actually true. However, most young women tend to go for more exciting wild guys with more of a bad boy image for short flings, especially in their late teens to mid twenties. Here's my little theory:</p>
<p>Sex and relationships follow basic rules of supply and demand like all commodities in our society, unfortunately, you can't trade them on the futures market like oil or wheat.</p>
<p>Casual sex is wanted the large majority of guys out there, high demand for that. Since women are the supplier of casual sex men must compete with each other by one upping each other in various ways. Usually, the loser in this competition tends to be the "nice" guy who women love but think to themselves "Yeah, but he isn't as exciting as that badass over there." The archtypical super cool guy is sort of like a trophy boyfriend for many women. They can brag to their friends about how wild he is in bed and how he knows all the cool spots in town and how is motorcycle is so cool to ride on and so on and so forth.</p>
<p>That's why if you want to find a girlfriend, a keeper, you stay away from bars, clubs and pubs. Find a smart girl who's more forward thinking. If you just want a good time, let yourself loose and don't be such a nice guy ALL the time.</p>
<p>Long term relationships however are wanted by more women than men, especially as the sexes get older. A young women who spent most her college years hooking up with bad boys now find that they make for horrible long term relationships. Truth be told, A LOT of men out there are not worth anything more then six months (hell, I'll raise my hand for this one myself, I'm just bad at relationships). At this point in a woman's life, she'll find out that the nice guys she shunned when she was younger are all married or in long term relationships, snatched up by more forward thinking women back in the day.</p>
<p>That's why if you must date bad boys, do it in high school so you can get a feel of how douchbaggish they become as time progresses. Then, by the time you reach university you'll be one of those foward thinking women who's tired of immature guys like the stereotypical frat boy.</p>
<p>let this website be a lesson to you all...</p>
<p><a href="http://www.intellectualwhores.com%5B/url%5D">www.intellectualwhores.com</a></p>
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<li>just for you all who don't feel like perusing the entire website, being a nice guy makes you an intellectualwhore - which means you are on the friend ladder. what is an intellectual whore? basically a boyfriend who doesn't get sex.</li>
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<p>you want to be an outlaw biker. what is an outlaw biker? basicly a dude who gets laid and doesn't put up with the girls crap.</p>
<p>you want to be an outlaw biker</p>
<p>"Do women like "nice"?"</p>
<p>H3LL NO! <sarcasm></sarcasm></p>
<p>Though, sometimes I do feel this way.</p>
<p>Yes I totally want to date a motorcycle riding-chain smoking-rough and tumble guy so he can take me to all the neat and totally tubular places in town and maybe he'll take me parking! </p>
<p>Wait, jk. The ONLY only only only reason a girl ever dates or wants to date a badass is because she thinks she can change him and that sort of a challenge is very exciting and addicting to a girl. But, it gets old fast.</p>
<p>bendrum, read the ladder theory. you're wrong</p>
<p>thank god someone brought up the ladder theory. It has got to be one of the greatest most accurate theories of the last 15 years.</p>
<p>oh most definately - without a doubt it is one of the most important discoveries in human psychology...ever.</p>
<p>Hey like I said, there are forward thinking women out there who think of nice guys like a conservative investor would think of a safe mutal fund. It won't give you great returns compared to a volatile stock but it won't crash and burn and go Enron on your ass when times get tough either. Nice guys are worth the emotional investment if you're in it for the long term but if you just wanna get your groove thang going, lets face the facts, you're gonna go for Baddy McBadass.</p>
<p>Haha I can almost feel the testosterone oozing from this post. Jags, let me start by saying, any male who has enough time to construct an entire website and several intricate theories regarding relationships should not be taken seriously, much less used for advice. All these "theories" and terms are crap. What girls want is a meaningful relationship, an area many men are serioulsy challenged in. Sure, we like good looks. But more importantly we like guys who can treat us well but who aren't pushovers at the same time.</p>
<p>god yes. I am sick and tired of boys who think they are the ****. I'm am trying to find a nice guy right now, but it's not working because all of the ones around me just want drunken hook ups. it's getting annoying. </p>
<p>Just don't be sickeningly nice and use phrases like "drop me a line". that crosses the line. being a good guy is enough. datable.</p>
<p>Also, guys are the ones who like non-commital action, not the other way around.</p>
<p>I think I should also add that "nice" doesn't mean just posing to get some ass. Girls can see through fake guys. Being a nice guy means being completely sincere as well.</p>
<p>actually bendrum, its 1 theory - that seems to be pretty accurate - at least to me and my experience. </p>
<p>If you read, the website actually tells you exactly what women want - AND in a pretty pie chart.</p>
<p>50% Money/Power
40% attraction
-50% physical attraction
-20% competition
-20% novelty
-10% other
10% - Things women say they care about but don't.</p>
<p>As you can see, phsyical attraction is only 20% of what women really want.</p>
<p>Considerate guys who aren't overbearing is a good way to put it.</p>
<p>you want to be an outlaw biker. what is an outlaw biker? basicly a dude who gets laid and doesn't put up with the girls crap.</p>
<p>^that's nice.. girl's crap? if you don't want to put up with the 'crap' then you are gonna have equally hard time getting laid. XP (unless the girl's just looking for a guy to screw without having to deal with his crap)</p>
<p>I like NICE GUYS!! screw the bikers, ***... I personally don't go for the badasses so XP</p>
<p>And another thing.. - OMG SOMEBODY MADE A PIE CHART ON SOME DAMN WEBSITE! IT MUST BE TRUE BECAUSE ALL THE GIRLS WANT THE DAMN SAME THING! OMG</p>