Drinking/drug use at overnights- how to judge culture?

Could be due to being more likely to have the +drinking characteristics, such as:

  • Smaller size means higher percentage of athletes. It may also mean that if fraternities and sororities exist as a viable ongoing system, they are more likely to have a higher percentage of students as members.
  • Northeast region.
  • Isolated location ("where there is nothing to do but drink").
  • Residential (as opposed to commuter) college.
  • Higher white, lower black and Asian enrollment.

However, each college, whether LAC or RU, can have its own combination of characteristics, and some may have significantly higher or lower drinking than their characteristics may suggest. For example, Penn State (main campus) is an RU with a notoriously alcohol-based social scene.

@user4321 I think a lot of kids are hoping to not be in the library on Friday and Saturday night, but do hope to be at movies or campus events, playing board games or cards, baking cookies, playing sports, hanging out with friends talking, etc — but not while drinking and not with a bunch of drunk people around them. The “library test” doesn’t really get at that.

One way to see what’s going on on campus in the evenings and weekends is to look at Snapchat - if you or your child has it - you can zoom in on the location of the college and see what people are posting publicly. Same with Instagram - not everyone’s Instas are public but those who are will give you an idea of what they are posting about.

How about inquiring as to how many alcohol “transports” occur each year? Isn’t that somewhere in the Clery reports? I’m also a fan of LAC’s, having a senior at Pomona.

@CAtransplant That is sneaky! Great idea. We all have Snapchat. I’ll figure out how to stalk the campuses. lol.

My D2 did hang at the library while her sister was revving up her party engines. D1 once told me how most of her friends were partying on Fri/Sat eves, but come Sunday, after brunch, all were back at work, in their rooms, common areas, library and labs.

OP has been clear, I think, that it took his son some time to warm up socially, in hs. He’s looking for a compatible college atmosphere, where he doesn’t feel like odd man out, when so much emphasis is on getting sloshed. I can imagine the concern it’s harder to find your tribe at some colleges.

It seems like when schools are in a rural setting you might find more kids drinking for lack of things to do. Then again they drink at urban schools, but at least there are museums, concerts and other options. If your son loves rural schools he should look into whether they have religious groups and/or substance free housing. I am sure that at all of the schools on your list he will find kids who don’t drink, but there will be lots who do. He just might have to work a little harder to find kids like himself.

@citymama9 we aren’t religious. Religious groups would really not be a fit at all. But I agree with having a campus with stuff going on and some schools are better at that than others.

i know many serious soccer plays who surprisingly smoke a lot of pot. We’re talking recruited athletes too. I don’t know how they have the lung capacity to play

Check out what the activities calendar shows a college offers.

Most rural schools work hard to schedule non-drinking events for students. I think one difference may be where students drink. There’s likely to be more on-campus drinking at rural and suburban schools because the aren’t many bars in the vicinity, unlike at more urban schools. I don’t know a lot of college kids anywhere who are visiting museums on a Friday night.

There are definitely colleges & universities where heavy or frequent or regular drinking is not the norm–weekends or otherwise.

@Publisher, can you name those schools so the OP can check them out for her son?

Honestly it’s too late to add schools. We are considering adding Tufts. I didn’t give the whole list in my opening post. He’s got 14 schools. We just found out that a boy he really likes at school is applying ED to one of the schools on S19’s list and he’s very much like S19 so that was sort of comforting. We are not considering big universities. That ship has sailed.

@CottonTales: I have sent @homerdog a list of schools & school types to consider.

A common misperception is that LACs offer more small classes than elite National Universities and state school honors colleges. This is not accurate with respect to Columbia, Northwestern, Chicago, Yale, Harvard, Princeton, & Johns Hopkins. Additionally, large state university honors colleges offer great merit scholarships & small classes with superior advising, research opportunities, internships & job placements.

Among LACs only Claremont McKenna College offers more small classes as a percentage of all classes offered than the above listed National Universities, but it also has a drinking centric campus culture. Swarthmore, Wash & Lee, Davidson, Williams & Wesleyan also offer a similar percentage of small classes as do the above listed National Universities.

One might be surprised, for example, at the sophistication & quality of student found in the University of Georgia Honors College. Actually exceeds several Ivies on the basis of numbers/stats only.

@homerdog, could your son be my daughter’s prom date?? Haha. They sound a lot alike.

Maybe we need to start a college for “former high school XC runners”!

My kid is a XC runner as well. She and her team are not drinkers. At our HS, the XC kids are high performing, high achieving kids. Top of their class, highest GPA of all the sports teams.

Not that there aren’t great kids, smart kids, or non-party kids on other teams, but just seems that there is something about XC kids.

One of S1’s HS XC teammates ran XC at Grinnell, graduated two years ago. Last time I saw him he loved his time there. His personality was pretty much in line with what your son would be looking for, social but smart and a serious student, not really into the party culture. XC tends to attract that type.

One of S2’s friends is similar and is a sophomore at Carleton, an athlete but not a runner. Again, similar personality and he really loves his school.

The ones on his list (still?) from other discussions I would worry about more would be Richmond and Colgate. No info on the others.

Good luck @homerdog. It will all work out in the end :slight_smile:

This should be pretty obvious, but if you’re looking at schools like these with less than 2000 students, a party atmosphere that you want to avoid really can affect your college life. Assuming 3/4 of the students are into drinking and partying, that leaves just 500 students who aren’t. If you expect your freshman student to mostly be getting to know other freshman, you’re down to 125. Whether those assumptions are accurate or entirely relevant isn’t really the point. But at a school with 10 times as many students, you’re looking at a much larger pool of candidates for one’s tribe. That doesn’t necessarily make them easier to find, as we’ve seen from many posts here from lonely students. But sometimes simple math is telling.

My son’s XC teammates in high school were the same. A teacher told us that she loved getting XC runners in her class!

DS ruled out one school after an overnight visit where the runners were drinking the night before a meet. :frowning: