<p>I'm wondering how much does the way one dresses affect their chances at making friends, or "looking like" the "typical" x university guy affect making friends? I dress rather preppy, but the other guys at my school don't, while the girls dress preppy. The guys wear these weird and loud t-shirts or american eagle/abercrombie things, while I do polo, burberry, brooks brothers, and mix it up with some lax shirts and a few Quiksilver/Billabong shirts. The typical guy is this handsome 5'11+ guy, I'm 5'2''. I don't have the kind of haircut that other guys have, with their wavy stuff girls love. My hair is combed over because I have no waves, and is modeled after Mitt Romney, who while I hate his politics, admire his hair. I'm also more intellectual than most of my school, I scored a 2010 on my SAT, the average is 1750, and this shows in class, and while I love being smart, think that socially these kids see me as "nerdy" or whatever, as I can talk in depth about an array of intellectual issues that I'd bet many here have no clue about. However, I am a party guy, played sports in HS, which I should have done at my school on intramurals, but I do not follow baseball or college basketball, which I think may have hurt me during my frat rush. I'm also musical, and play guitar really well, and kids at my school don't seem to care much about music. </p>
<p>How much is my inability to fit in at my school affecting my friend making potential. I made friends, tho didn't hang out with some of the kids in my college Democrats club. I am taking this semester off, and will be headed back in the summer. I would have joined more clubs last year, but they all met at the same time. Am I better off at a different school, with more open minded and interesting people, who also look for those qualities in others, more than the seemingly superficial people at my school? I mean I love my school compared to the cc I went to before, and thank God I got out of CC. But what should I do? Should I make an effort to "fit in," or look to a place I either fit in, or don't have to "fit in?"</p>
<p>You sound like a true middle class experience in the rust belt. :rolleyes:</p>
<p>It sounds like you’re a poor fit, socially, at your school, however, since it’s so large, you should be able to find your niche it just may take sometime.</p>
<p>There is nothing admirable about Mitt Romney’s hair unless you’re a 5’2" nose picking butt scratching college midget which in that case you are a loser and blow at life HAHHAAAHAHHAA</p>
<p>Too bad I’m on the right track
Beef, got the right mack
Hit the trunk, grab the pump pump, I’ll be right back
We buyin’ bars out, showin’ scars out
We heard there’s hoes out, so we brought the cars out
Grab the peels cuz we robbin’ tonight
Beat the **** outta security, for stoppin the fight
I got a fifth of the remy, **** the Belve and ‘cris
I’m sellin’ **** up in the club like I work in the *****
**** the dress codes, it’s street clothes, we all street ■■■■■■
We on the dance floor, throwin’ bows, beatin’ up ■■■■■■
I’m from the D.E.C., tryin’ to disrespect D.T.P.
And watch the bottles start flyin’ from the V.I.P.
**** this rap *<strong><em>, we clap </em></strong><em>, two in your body
Grab ya four, start a fight dog, ruin the party
So move </em><strong><em>, get out the way hoe
All you ■■■■■■ mother</em></strong><em>ers make way for 2-0
So…
MOVE </em>, GET OUT THE WAY</p>