<p>Oh definitely! There really isn't any rush to get into something new unless I needed a replacement oh so badly! But honestly should just get to know the new one anyway at this rate! =)</p>
<p>lol just calm your hormones down. By the sound of her nickname, Gertrude sounds ugly as hell</p>
<p>mme-lin:</p>
<p>don't go for a new relationship just for the sake of having one; it feels good to hold hands and hug and all that couple-y stuff, but i guess a good guideline is: if he was your first, would you go out with him? try not to let the hurt from the past cloud/speed up your judgment.</p>
<p>Yeah I know... I'm not just jumping from one to another!</p>
<p>Pink - Haha, it probably didn't make sense. I wrote that at 2:30 in the morning. </p>
<p>What I was trying to say was that guys seem to think that if they don't pounce soon enough this mysterious "friend zone" will enshroud them in a fog of off-limit-ness forever more, when in fact, if they're in the "friend zone" they were probably doomed from the start. Even if they had made a move, it probably wouldn't have worked out anyway. </p>
<p>I have guy friends whom I've been friends with for years and who I wouldn't be adverse to dating. I just don't believe that a guy and I could become "too good of friends" to the point where I lose interest and everything gets permanently stuck in platonic land. It wouldn't be the friendship/closeness part, it would be their personality that'd get them landed there. Bwahaha.</p>
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I don't understand Pesky. She said "friend zone is not a myth" and then confirmed all the properties of the friend zone.
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<p>^ Yeah right, ***!?</p>
<p>Again, I am NOT telling you to NOT be her friend. You can be someone's friend BUT not be in the friends zone. What you want to avoid is being NOTHING MORE THAT JUST A FRIEND.</p>
<p>A person in the friends zone IMO is usually someone that is overly nice--not that there is anything wrong with being nice--who is usually not really physically attractive, and MOST IMPORTANTLY is generally kind of boring/uninteresting... Basically someone you don't mind talking to and being "friends" with, but aside from that, you don't really find them attractive, and wouldn't really consider them for any type of relationship other than being </p>
<p>"just friends", whether it be long term, short term, or just like super random sex out of the blue.</p>
<p>Example:
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Friends zone:**
Michael Moore
Bill Gates
Rosie o Donald
Donald Trump
George W Bush.
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Not friends zone:**
Any victoria's secrets angel
Brat Pitt
Hugh Hefner
Misa Campo, hahaha just had to throw that in.</p>
<p>Pesky, the guy friends who you've known for years who you said you wouldn't be adverse to dating were NEVER in your friends zone. AGAIN, being a friend is DIFFERENT from being in the "friends zone". Surely, you have at least one male friend who you consider NOTHING MORE than "just a friend" and would NEVER consider dating him as he is now. Sure, if in a year he some how became a sexy beast (ugly duckling type of thing HAHA), that is a different story, but I am trying to emphasize that you won't date him if he said the same.</p>
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Take her to Sawtelle and go to Volcano Tea and Beard Papa's for dessert and take pics at the Japanese pic machines and sing Karaoke downstairs! Wish a guy would do that for me... It's really sexy!
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<p>Really ..... how simple ........ :rolleyes:</p>
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A person in the friends zone IMO is usually someone that is overly nice--not that there is anything wrong with being nice--who is usually not really physically attractive, and MOST IMPORTANTLY is generally kind of boring/uninteresting... Basically someone you don't mind talking to and being "friends" with, but aside from that, you don't really find them attractive, and wouldn't really consider them for any type of relationship other than being
"just friends"
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Well if someone is nice, not attractive, generally boring/uninteresting, what does the girl find captivating in the guy .... what makes the friendship worthwhile? Benefits? Cure loneliness?</p>
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<p>Just tell her you want to hold hands hug and cuddle. Live life with no regrets. _____________________________________________________________________________<strong><em> Unless, she's a girl like hibiscuspink, then just pull a "Pepe LePew" and take the pussy! 'Cuz she don't want none of that kissing and hugging ****. </em></strong>_____________________________________________________________________________</p>
<p> [quote=mme-lin] After a break-up, how does one avoid getting a rebound? It's been about a month and I think I'm starting to get over him rapidly... It appears that I've another love interest and I don't want to leave him as a rebound. I think I'll wait a month and see how it develops... I just miss dating... and men. Really hot men.:(
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<p>Don't high jack the man's thread, make your own dammit! :mad:</p>
<p>Unless, she's a girl like hibiscuspink, then just pull a "Pepe LePew" and take the pussy!</p>
<p>^What's that supposed to mean?</p>
<p>He was trying to call me easy. :rolleyes:</p>
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Well if someone is nice, not attractive, generally boring/uninteresting, what does the girl find captivating in the guy .... what makes the friendship worthwhile? Benefits? Cure loneliness?
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<p>Thats exactly my point. The friendship is NOT worthwhile, and thus you get put in the "friends zone". That doesn't mean you two are good friends. And its not like most people are going to be all *****y and straight up refuse to talk to you AT ALL if you are a nice, but boring person. LOL.</p>
<p>Thanks for all the great advice.</p>
<p>Should I call her up and see if she wants to do something this summer? Or should I wait until we move in next month? </p>
<p>And how do I know if she wants to experience...the thunder in my pants? I'm a REALLY inexperienced guy while she's pretty experienced (from what I've gathered). I feel like everyone is sexing it up, while I've never even...well...nevermind. </p>
<p>Am I overthinking all this? Am I asking the wrong group too? I realize asking this forum for sex advice might be like asking a vegan how to prepare a steak. :)</p>
<p>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA</p>
<p>Don't you worry about our sex lives. Worry about your own. </p>
<p>:rolleyes: </p>
<p>Just ****ing call her up already. DWAI!</p>
<p>"thunder in [your] pants" ... ****ing golden!</p>
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<p>Dude, there's like a lot of christian kids on campus that are all holy and stuff...preaching the word of J. I bet they are all waiting for marriage with their holier than thou attitudes. In conclusion, you're not alone in being a virgin. </p>
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And how do I know if she wants to experience...the thunder in my pants?
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<p>If you have to call it that, then I doubt she wants to experience it. </p>
<p>Also - sex with a virgin = ooky & seriously unsexy.</p>
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sex with a virgin = ooky & seriously unsexy.
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<p>You have to start somewhere.......find another virgin and have sex! That way both will feel awkward.</p>
<p>Agreed. Plus, you don't really have to worry about them being unclean.</p>
<p>i have concluded that...</p>
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<li><p>ihasamilk is a funny guy...i apologize for giving you such a hard time earlier</p></li>
<li><p>pink and emz are promiscuous </p></li>
<li><p>CC ppl are witty</p></li>
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<p>One more post Pink! 1000=senior member</p>
<p>/jealous</p>