<p>you snubbed the dude. so what do you expect? you expect him to like you after that?</p>
<p>OMG GUYS THIS IS A ■■■■■ THREAD.</p>
<p>morons…</p>
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<p>From his point of view it possibly looked like I snubbed him, but in reality I did not. I just have low social skills and, as I have illustrated with this story, I suffer as a result.</p>
<p>YOU suffer as a result of your low social skills? How about everyone around you?</p>
<p>LOL–so far, best post on this thread Emily.</p>
<p>you must be this short to post a complaint about your social life</p>
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<p>lol you do realize that you won’t realize your career goals that you talk about so much if you’ll be a pathetic social outcast?</p>
<p>you’ll need networking. you’ll need to show initiative.</p>
<p>to slave for the system, you have to be fit for it</p>
<p>Stop playing the victim and change. The person you are now is obviously not doing any good so be different. Sorry to say this, but the problem is most likely you, not everyone else.
I don’t know exactly how you should do it, but there are plenty of books and websites available to help you. Just making the initiative to do so is enough. It’s working for me. I hung out all Thursday-Friday-Saturday, doing stuff that I never thought I would do. This was all because I officially declared I was going to change myself.
Just do it.</p>
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<p>I gave up my career goals as soon as I had that realization.</p>
<p>You shuoldn’t have to. We all go through sucky times, it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with your character.</p>
<p>In 8th grade I spent the year as one of the most unpopular and socially ret arded people in the school, and now as a senior I’m an SGA officer, have lots of friends, am involved in drama, etc. You might have to improve yourself where you see needed, but don’t give up your goals</p>
<p>dramakitty, and what’s your psychological diagnosis? Mine is a personality disorder with a bunch of other things.</p>
<p>Was that what a shrink said or what you/others said?</p>
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“it’s the diseases fault, not mine”</p>
<p>Pmvd: Don’t listen to everyone else on here. They ARE talking about you and conspiring against you. Most likely the whole school is as well.</p>
<p>The Dean? You have to think bigger man. If not the President of the College, then go straight to the TOP. And I mean the TOP. I suggest meticulously gathering all sorts of documents, visual and audio evidence, as well as bodily samples, and then getting on a flight to D.C as fast as you can…</p>
<p>“Mac Taylor, CSI. You have my full attention.”</p>
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<p>And to all of you guys, I don’t appreciate your sarcasm.</p>
<p>I want you all to understand that people hurt me emotionally just because I rarely talk and always mind my own business. If I were a jerk… I’d understand … it would make sense that people made my life miserable. But I am a good person. The ones pointing fingers at me are the ones who need psychological attention. At least I don’t go out of my way to cause “flawed” people pain. I’ve met plenty of socially inept people, too, and I don’t hate them just because they snubbed me. I am not a social celebrity. Not everyone must desire my friendship you know.</p>
<p>“I want you all to understand that people hurt me emotionally just because I rarely talk and always mind my own business.”</p>
<p>What you don’t understand is that by your not talking and not being interested in other people, you are hurting others emotionally and are causing them to dislike you. What you consider “minding your own business” and “rarely talking” is what others regard as odd, unfriendly, snobbish, and cold behavior. Your behavior causes others to feel you dislike them, feel superior to them or are just plain strange.</p>
<p>Continue to act that way if you choose, but expect that if you do continue such behavior, other people are not going to like you and aren’t going to treat you well. At best they may ignore you, and while perhaps you feel that would be fine since you could then focus on your academic work, etc., in the outside world, people whom others ignore have a very hard time obtaining and keeping jobs of any kind – even jobs that are far below their intellectual capabilities.</p>
<p>People usually don’t want to work with or supervise someone who seems odd, unfriendly and self absorbed.</p>
<p>snitches get stitches fool, what are you? A little kid? You should go up to that guy and deck him in the face, see what he says then.</p>
<p>and I am going to keep giving you dirty looks until you say hi to me!!! All I wanted was a conversation and you blew me off!!! You are just a dirty little tart!! YOu made me extremely sad :'(.</p>
<p>You’re the one who’s pointing fingers.</p>