<p>I have never thought myself to be the asocial type - actually far from it. In highschool I had multitudes of friends, most of whom I knew very well, and on the weekends / holidays I was barraged by people wanting to hang out. Throughout high school I made new friends and also strengthened the relationships I had with kids I'd known since elementary school. I was not particularly shy, although I suppose I was rather reserved and self-conscious; however, to say there was something about me that would preclude me from interacting socially would be very wrong.</p>
<p>I was accepted into a fairly prestigious college, known for its cutthroat academics and intense pre-medicall students. My freshman year was essentially a fiasco. The people on my hall, those with whom I would spend the greatest amount of time interacting, were not my type. They were very preppy and haughty. They made me feel inferior, and instead of attemping to reconcile any social relations with them, I felt it best to just put up with them. </p>
<p>It was difficult to realize any significant friendships with those outside my hall. I mean, I had made various acquaintances through clubs and volunteering groups etc; however, I saw them at most for a few hours a week, obviously not enough time for any friendship to form or strengthen for that matter.</p>
<p>So as sophomore year began, I realized that most people had signed up to live in suites or multiple suites with the same friends they had met in their freshman dorms. Me, having the horrible luck of not befriending many people on my floor, signed up as a single. I am now in a suite with a bunch of people that already know each other. The suites are rather asocial outside of the groups of kids that already know each other, so it is hard for me to interact socially without infiltrating these groups. I meet various acquaintances while traversing the campus, but that doesn't suffice. </p>
<p>Making friends in informal lecture classes are difficult if not impossible, and it is hard for me to find additional venues to make new friends. There are strong-knit cliques within my dorm, but it's hard to enter into a close group of friends. Most clubs don't meet regularly and when they do it is rather informal. I'm not much of an athlete so I don't want to do intramural sports or anything. I exercise in the gym, but I would surmise that it's close to impossible to make a good friend on your adjacent treadmill ^^. </p>
<p>Thanks for any suggestions!</p>