hooked up with girl and now its awkward

<p>She is probably not too happy she hooked up with you.</p>

<p>I’m a guy btw</p>

<p>talk to her and ask why she is acting so weird</p>

<p>“Maybe she has a bf, bf at home, got a good look at you in the harsh light of day, is embarrassed she hooked up with you, whatever, is causing her to avoid you. Why don’t you text her and ask her to coffee. Something innocent so she won’t think all you want to do is hookup. Back up a few paces and start a friendship.”</p>

<p>This. She must have a reason why she considered the hook up awkward, and maybe she is afraid of leading you on anymore so she’s trying to end it in the easiest way possible. Hate to say it, but I recommend moving on if she’s not interested in even talking to you about it.</p>

<p>Do you mean making out, or sex? I’m just curious because this is slightly important.</p>

<p>But not that much. Your situation is as common as the grass is green. This happens all the time and it’s usually akward the first day or maybe week after first hooking up with someone.</p>

<p>She might feel kind of slutty for moving fast (I’m not saying she actually is/ or actually acted slutty, I’m just saying that SHE might feel this way herself).</p>

<p>Maybe she just had a quick itch to scratch and there you were - she’s not looking for a relationship or anything more ---- talking during the week/ multiple hookups over a period of time tend to veer down the relationshipy exclusive avenue.</p>

<p>Or maybe she’s just not that into you that much.</p>

<p>I would move on if I were you - this happened in what, a matter of hours? It’ll only take a matter of hours for it to happen with another girl. But here’s the second best option:</p>

<p>I don’t know how many times you already contacted her… but seeing as you already have her phone number (at least that’s a plus… I forget that sometimes lol) - depending on how many times you already texted her (the less the better you needy fool lol) I would just text her next Friday or Saturday night at around 2 am. It’s probably best not to do it this weekend since it’s so close - wait til next weekend then text her “hey wanna hang out?” on Fri or Sat at around 2 am. If she wants sex and hasn’t been getting any, she’ll might hang out with you. That’s a big IF though.</p>

<p>Move on and consider yourself lucky.</p>

<p>Just move on.</p>

<p>I mean… was she drunk? If so, forget the night and move on. If not, I wouldn’t be so fast to give up. Wait until the weekend and then see if she wants to go to another party with you.</p>

<p>OpErAtIoNaL DeFiNiTiOn Of “HoOkEd Up,” PLeAsE?</p>

<p>definitely move on… </p>

<p>if you want a more detailed advice, see some Dr.Phil reruns</p>

<p>I agree with everyone else. Move on.</p>

<p>It was what happened at a party so nothing to get so antsy about.</p>

<p>actually we hung out at a party after meeting before. We hooked up after I walked her back to her dorm and were outside her room. Plus, her friend was standing right there. But I liked her and want her.</p>

<p>Did she blow you?</p>

<p>^The fact that it was in the hallway with her friend watching makes me think the answer to that question is no.</p>

<p>^^^^^^</p>

<p>So young, so naive :(</p>

<p>Just the fact that you kissed her makes me feel disgusted. You have no game my friend. I would have invited her roommate too.</p>

<p>I’m a girl and the only reason i can think of is either the hookup sucked really bad or she was just in it to get some and doesn’t really like your personality. So either she liked you before but after hooking up she felt that you two aren’t sexually compatible and can’t pursue the relationship or she never liked you for you and just wanted some ass.</p>

<p>If you hook up with a girl at a party, she very rarely wants a relationship with you.</p>

<p>^Absolutely not true lmao</p>

<p>You have weird people at your parties then.</p>