<p>What are some ways that guys break up with girls who they don't want to hurt? Do they ever say things like "I dont want to rush you" ?</p>
<p>Be honest, "I'm just not that into you" (it's a chic book).</p>
<p>columbiaplz, you need to get away from guys. Consider Barnard instead of Columbia.</p>
<p>if i wanted to get away from guys i'd go to UNIVERSITY OF CHICAGO</p>
<p>Touche. ^_-</p>
<p>Guys will say all kinds of things.</p>
<p>If a guy says "I don't want to rush you", as much as I can tell with no further context given, then he's probably unsure of how he feels about you and you failed to give resounding signals one way or the other (or you gave very mixed signals). I know that I've been in situations where there's a girl that seems cool enough, but I don't have super strong feelings one way or the other, but if she would show some interest, I'd go along with it and see where it lead.</p>
<p>Again though, with minimal context given, it's impossible to say what your situation is/was.</p>
<p>how about this... just stop seeing each other and let time pass. Either a guy or girl could break up like that. I don't really know a standard way in which guys break up.</p>
<p>"You are wonderful but it's just not working for me. You deserve better."</p>
<p>i think they just avoid them, hoping the girl would forget them and move on</p>
<p>They say "I don't love you."</p>
<p>"if i wanted to get away from guys i'd go to UNIVERSITY OF CHICAGO"</p>
<p>no dont come here please you sound insane</p>
<p>oh and to answer your question, "Your sister's are firmer."</p>
<p>"I'm seeing this other chick on the side, and she's decided she doesn't like how you smell so I can't hang around you anymore."</p>
<p>To which the girl will respond:</p>
<p>"But I need a big strong man! I'll wash the stench off you before you go to her!"</p>
<p>To which I would respond:</p>
<p>"They loves it, Mr. Kool-Aid man. Oh yeah."</p>