How to approach girls w/o being awkward...

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<p>You’ve got a point, there are things you can do to improve your odds and make something happen out of nothing. If you’ve got “game”, what you’re suggesting makes sense.</p>

<p>However, I don’t think our pal Indian., who’s already graduated ect…, would benefit from your advice. Sure, he could eventually benefit from it, but he’s a ways off from your advanced technique. He just needed to get past step one, get some experience, gain some self confidence. After putting in some time with the low hanging fruit, he’d have a better chance at moving on to the next level.</p>

<p>Also, IMHO, this is a case of someone shooting for the proverbial stars. Problem is, many people grow up watching some sappy love movies and have convinced themselves they can get “that” girl/guy. Frankly, these movies have been a disservice to our society at large, people are running around with delusions thinking they can get a 9 when they should really be happy with a 6 or delighted with a 7. John Cusack said it best in “Hi Fidelity”: “You gotta punch your own weight…”.</p>

<p>People are missing out if their mind are in this fog expecting something that just isn’t going to happen. Just like Indian might be a great guy, there’s a girl out there that’s cool and fun too…</p>

<p>I’m not saying your way is wrong, hell if you have the swagger to pull it off, game on. Just don’t get caught in the vortex of delusion.</p>

<p>Mike</p>

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<p>Oh God, lol.</p>

<p>That’s me from 4 years ago… almost fresh out of high school.</p>

<p>Yeah… like night and day from what I’ve experienced/ learned since then.</p>

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<p>^ So Spiderman, any updates on the art of the pick up? </p>

<p>hahaha</p>

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<p>To be able to approach girls without being awkward, guys should do 3 simple steps: </p>

<ol>
<li><p>Have no intention to approach any girl at all before you even go out because that will make you absolutely natural, relaxed and playful when seeing girls around you</p></li>
<li><p>Empty your mind from all your fears, worries and approach anxiety through a short meditation, self talk or a prayer</p></li>
<li><p>Practice becoming more comfortable with sharing your true sexual desires with girls because girls absolutely love being approached by guys who are not shy about expressing their true sexual feelings towards girls that make them sexually excited </p></li>
</ol>

<p>By the way, the lack of comfort with their own sexual desires is usually the main reason why so many guys turn out to be awkward when it comes to approaching girls. Because most guys are very shy about their true sexual desires towards women.</p>

<p>Hope this helps you.</p>

<p>Bruno Babic</p>

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<p>laughing because im a girl and this all sounds ridiculous</p>