How to approach girls w/o being awkward...

<p>Guys talking about what girls are thinking and what they like (beyond the basics, like ‘don’t smell’ and ‘don’t be creepy’) are hilarious. You don’t know **** about it from what I’ve read. I wouldn’t presume to go and give other people deep advice on guys, so little player-wannabes thinking they have ‘the game’ down is laughable. Keep dreaming.</p>

<p>misssilvestris have you ever heard of manipulation?</p>

<p>I was at a zoo once watching the tigers. The female one just went up the male and turned around. The male just got up and they started doing it in front of a group of preschoolers. Is this what humans are like?
Thanks.</p>

<p>google or youtube david wygant</p>

<p>Lol, Miss Silvestris, way to bring up a thread from three years ago just to make fun of the posters.</p>

<p>And for what it’s worth, no one here claimed to have “the game” down, but I’m pretty sure that even you would agree that a confident guy > an insecure guy? That’s basically the root of the more adamant advice on this thread.</p>

<p>There is no easier place to pick uo girls than in class, except directly outside it. Honestly, just catch her in the library, ask for help strike up a conversation and totally act like she is not hot and act like you could not care less that she is a hot girl. This tactic is 200% proven by me to drive women crazy. After all the average girl even one you don’t think of as hot gets hit on at least once a month by creepy guys.</p>

<p>"Definitely the sit next to her and acting confused thing. Just don’t ask too stupid of a question. "</p>

<p>Sounds like Mean Girls</p>

<p>Good, I swear ya’ll are getting your stuff from that Secrets of the Pickup Artist bible. I mean, it’s a funny book but no. Just be natural okay. You don’t need to act like a jerk or make fun of her (some girls are cool with that, but almost none see that as flirting and it actually puts you in that friend zone if you tease them too much). If she has a boyfriend then sorry, find another girl. Here try this if you just don’t know the girl at all: I couldn’t help but notice you because your smile is beautiful, and I get the feeling you are a very interesting person. </p>

<p>One of my friends always said this line (he’s an ex actually) and I swear he’d get so many girls off it. Any girl he wanted, I guess it’s just the no bullcrap of it. Just be straightforward and complimenting and sweet and kinda funny. There’s no real secret to unlocking a girls heart or legs.</p>

<p>Are women attracted to pheromones?</p>

<p>Girls like to be randomly screamed at.
If you start screaming, out of nowhere, (ideally within 1-2 inches from her face), she’ll fall all over you. Bonus points if you tell her that The Great Gazoo is warning you about the impending attack of angry albino chimpanzees, and that you must run for cover immediately.</p>

<p>Girls are also attracted to gay men.</p>

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<p>I couldn’t help but notice you because your post is beautiful, and I get the feeling you are a very interesting person.</p>

<p>i dunno lucky that felt kinda awkward even on the internet</p>

<p>if a single guy and a single girl like each other in college something’s gonna happen, it’s like a law of physics or something, there’s really no point in trying to force something when nothing’s there</p>

<p>newton’s law of hook-ups</p>

<p>Dude, it doesn’t matter how you approach her, just find a reason to make some small talk, anything will do. Crack a silly joke or something.</p>

<p>If she’s into you, she’ll try and talk to you, if not she’ll be on her way. It’s when a guy tries to make something out of nothing that things become awkward.</p>

<p>Mike</p>

<p>fu** it. do it live</p>

<p>How is this thread alive? It’s older than the internet–Indian is probably a retired chemist now.</p>

<p>Actually women like teasing, the easiest way to pick up girls to find girls who like you already see what they do to hit on you, mimick to girls who are not attracted to you and viola. This is basically what the pickup artist say and I think it works and here is why.
Most guys can start a conversation and even get friendly with a girl (who they already go to school with) on their own, but most guys don’t know how to create attraction. That is they don’t know how to get women to be attracted to them if she does not already think your cute. Which means the 90% of un-cute guys have no clue how to make women like them.</p>

<p>@panamike, see the pick up artist start where you left off, sometimes girls are not into guys right away because guys don’t present them best self on a first meeting (most people don’t). Plus think of girls who will be interested in you right away, those will be the ones who are judging you completely off your looks and maybe 10% first impression personality. We all know that is not the real you. So why would you want to be with someone who is only with you for your looks or a cheesy first impression?</p>

<p>I think you can create something when nothing would be there, you just have to know how to do it. For example, guy sees girl, think she is unattractive, next day guy sees girl dressed very sexy, think she is very attractive. Now reverse roles, girls sees guy, guy talks to girl, girl thinks guy is revolting “go away creepo…” next day girl sees guy and girl can’t resist him. We know it can happen, most people just don’t know how. We all see the movies and classical romance, the girl always pretends to be not interested, playing hard to get, it is part of our culture for the man to win the girl over. Com’mon fellows, don’t be so soft</p>

<p>I agree with most of what peter_parker said, but I have to correct a few things.</p>

<p>Peter, this guy is a newbie, not Sam Fisher. We can’t give him advanced missions yet until he goes through his training missions. So what I’m going to do, is modify a boring mission to make it success for you.</p>

<p>STEP 1 - “The Step Yo’ Game Up” Mission-
Location: Optometrist, Local Guess Store, Ross (Can substitute Marshall’s or TJ Maxx)
Objectives: Do you wear glasses? If so, it’s time to get some contacts. Believe it or not, it’s very rare that a girl thinks a guy looks better in glasses then he does all natural. Plus your new optics will increase your “beer goggle” accuracy by 17%, effectively lowering your chances of a random encounter with “buglies”, a very dangerous villain who can slay you in 32 minutes.</p>

<p>This mission will improve your success with every other girl, not just your crush. We’ll get to her later. After getting contacts, hit up your Guess outlet when it’s on sale and pick up some new gear. New Guess gear will lower your rejection rating by 72 and increase your confidence by 38. After picking up some gear, head to Ross (Or Marshall’s or TJ Maxx) and pick up some discount cologne. Now that you’re geared up, it’s time for the first mission.</p>

<p>STEP 2 - “The Heartbeat Kid” Mission
Location - Your lecture class.
Time - +5 minutes from Lecture start.
Objectives - With your newly improved optics, scope out the location of your target. It’s important that you do this fast, without letting her notice. To make your undercover camouflage more successful, pretend you’re looking for your friend you normally sit with. Now it’s important to feint a look of disdain, as you notice that your seat is taken. Time to sit near her. It’s important that you sit in this order of priority: 1) The same row as her within 5 seats. 2) The row behind her within 3 seats or 3) Any row behind her within her beside line of sight. </p>

<p>If you’re not in her line of sight, you will not engage her and the mission will be unsuccessful. </p>

<p>This is the important part- Use the “Hey I don’t really get this material, do you have study partners?” line, but the objective is not to study with her at all. Set up a neutral location that has easily accessible casual distractions. A Starbucks next to a restaurant or miniature golf park, for example. </p>

<p>!!! Caution !!! - If you take her near a theater and actually squeeze a movie out of this, you FAIL! A movie is the WORST way to build chemistry with a girl. A) You don’t get to build interest from her with personality. B) The movie itself can affect her emotions and she’ll involuntarily apply these emotions to how she feels about you. </p>

<p>Once you’ve completed this mission, mission 3 will be unlocked.</p>

<p>EDIT: Necro post fail. I’m guessing he failed.</p>

<p>A man with an ugly girl on his arm has a 200% better chance of picking up any given girl than a man by himself. there is no task harder than picking up a hot girl (who will surely be surrounded by at least 3-4 friends 24/7) by yourself. Guys with ugly girls have ever girl in the room at least looking at him wondering if there is something more to him, guys by themselves are like 90% of guys, LOL</p>

<p>That’s too funny. I hadn’t even noticed the OP date.</p>