<p>MacTech, they're always around in every college. Just gotta look in the right places.</p>
<p>morals?? what do morals do for you anyway?</p>
<p>This reminds me of Nietzsche's 'revaluation of all values'.</p>
<p>elphaba88, your name isn't based on the book/musical, is it? I love Wicked, just wondering...</p>
<p>Anyway, college girls can be very superficial. However, there's also a lot of great/nice ones. If you're in a lab class, getting one as a lab partner is a great place to start. :D</p>
<p>BTW adconard, I hate Nietzsche. With a fiery passion.</p>
<p>Jonathan Glover> Nietzsche
If you haven't read his indict on Nietzsche (it's in On Humanity, which is a kick-a$$ and actually plausible post-nihlist reconstruction of human ethics anyways), it's amazing. Do so.</p>
<p>afraid so, warblers :) I'm a theater addict.</p>
<p>I haven't read the other eleven pages of this thread, but as a girl in college, my recommendation to all the guys is to be straightforward. Don't beat around the bush by asking her friends or your friends, just ask her out after class or something. Asking a girl out and getting turned down is probably better than spending four years wondering "what if?"</p>
<p>Oh... and it might be better to be friends first so that you know there's something in common between you guys. Otherwise, it might get ... awkward.</p>
<p>^ You kind of contradicted yourself. You say it's better to ask someone else out after class or whatever but then you say it's better to become friends first. Not sure where you're really getting at...</p>
<p>i think its better to become friends with a girl before asking her out.</p>
<p>Wish girls made the first move, would make everything so much easier.
Didn't read the whole eleven pages of the thread but thought the original post was both creepy and uncomfortable.</p>
<p>im a shy guy and i dont have many female freinds and even if i do, there're not really close. the problem is that when im confronting a girl, even with a group of people and even if i dont have a crush on the girl, i feel nervous and find it hard to look at her or even to talk to her. every time i look, i feel shes thinking smtn bad bout me.... sigh my shallowness ruins me....</p>
<p>That's not shallowness, that's paranoia (and somewhat egocentric). :p</p>
<p>You need to get over that- try to talk with your female friends more. Some people act like girls are a different species. :rolleyes: </p>
<p>Hmm...after reading your other post, I see what you mean (e.g. age gap). That's why many colleges don't like to accept early applicants.</p>
<p>How to ask women out:</p>
<p>Walk up to one and ask, "Hey, whatcha up to this weekend? Want to go see a movie?"</p>
<p>Done deal. Follow this up with moving on with your life.</p>
<p>i know i know, its just that, most of the times i see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is, hot or ugly... is that normal?</p>
<p>Shallow? Yes. Normal? Yes. :p</p>
<p>Umm...everyone looks at another person and considers their looks. It's very normal.</p>
<p>No, you're not a shallow jerk, either.</p>
<p>I don't even think it's shallow. I mean, if you're considering someone as a potential "mate" then you want them to be attractive to you.</p>
<p>I mean, imagine waking up every day to a partner you find unattractive. Ouch.</p>
<p>If it's shallow, then we're all shallow, so I suppose that means none of us are shallow? Animals want to find attractive mates, so I suppose that's not shallow...although I'm not sure you can apply that to humans... :confused:</p>
<p>I have a question that somebody can hopefully answer (don't want to make a new thread on the same topic...)
There is this girl in my chem class that not only do I think she has a great personality, but I think she is super cute. How do I approach her without being awkward? I just hate being awkward and since I am pretty shy it is hard for me to approach girls that I am interested in... :-</p>
<p>There was actually a thread on that exact topic. Here you go, hopkinslax:</p>
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