<p>Ha ha ha, you're too old fashioned buddy. No one goes out on dates in college anymore, it's all about one night stands on casual sex.</p>
<p>1st Base: Is kissing, petting and feeling up the breasts
2nd Base: Oral sex
3rd Base: Sex
Home Run: Finding out what their name is.</p>
<p>i'm sure if i threw some flatware at icrisis i could get her (i hope you aren't a him) in the sack</p>
<p>If those are the bases then I must be waiting for the first pitch then. I think I gotta get some of the HGH players are using nowadays.</p>
<p>guys should stop being wuss and cowards and start becoming alpha males if u wanna get girls</p>
<p>Sorry Ozym, I'm a man. </p>
<p>I think the college "dating" scene is a little different these days. One night stands have always been big on campus but I think nowadays it's more common to have friends with benefits then it is to actually see people courting each other.</p>
<p>Oh and about the alpha male thing, here are things that make you the alpha male</p>
<p>Being an athlete, even if your school isn't too big on sports.
Being rich or at least having rich parents so you can at least pull off the illusion with your expensive clothes.
The ability to dance well and dress nicely.
Sheer undeniable hotness.</p>
<p>If you don't meet any of the above requirements, you can work on your personality. A silver tongue helps.</p>
<p>Humour: The more wicked your sense of humour the better. A surprisingly high number of guys though tend to treat male and female humour the same. This will make you look like a douche. You'll want to have a repetoir of jokes for women.</p>
<p>Confidence: Again, walk the fine line between being confident and a total ass. It's hard for me to put it into words but I can usually get a feel of how confident I should be after talking to a girl for a couple seconds. Some girls are more receptive to confidence than others.</p>
<p>Intelligence: Okay, girls are not really into intelligence. They really like it when you know a lot about a subject matter they are interested in because then it gives off the illusion of intelligence. Sure, you may be a complete dumbass but if you can recite Shakespear more power to you.</p>
<p>It helps toting your glock around for the ladies to see. Chulla.</p>
<p>dipset: it's not about being cowards or wuss. i mean if you don't try anything at all then i can understand but that's not the case with me. i try and try and try. i mean i've gotten as far as getting some numbers but somehow things just never work out for me and its drivin me mad.</p>
<p>i'm actually gonna starting spending a lot of time in the gym. i'm gonna make the gym my best friend. then see how that helps.</p>
<p>ICrisis: The ability to dance or dress well....well I've tried working with that (it's the only thing out of the 4 u mentioned that I can take a shot at). I'm just horrible. I really wish I could find a place to take dance classes of some sort. I figured if I already know how to dance to one type of music I would at least be able to flow with club music. As it is I can't feel the music at all. I feel like a freaking robot lol.</p>
<p>what kind of jokes should be saved for women? examples?</p>
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i'm actually gonna starting spending a lot of time in the gym. i'm gonna make the gym my best friend. then see how that helps.
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Please don't be that guy. You know, the guy who thinks that girls will swoon over muscle and then gets all upset when the ones he wants aren't attracted to him. Have enough comfort in yourself to not have to be Mr. Gym Guy to get a girl. </p>
<p>Confidence is good... but not in the way that most guys think it is good. I'm completely tired of men who don't believe in themselves, who put me down because I'm "intimidating," or who can't handle a woman who pushes him to be a better person. The good confidence has nothing to do with being confident in how much you can bench-press, how many girls you can get, or any other nonsense: it's all about knowing that you are an emotionally strong person.</p>
<p>look i swear by this and so many other guys that i no you have to read this book called Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. His book goes into specific in what is an alpha male and how to be more sucessful with women. Its a MUST READ for guys who have trouble with the ladies</p>
<p>Note: I'm in no way trying to advertise this book. I not a salse rep in any way, just trying to help guys out</p>
<p>emotionally im not a strong person altho i put up with a lot of crap sometimes. physically im not strong either, literally lol. in fact i keep taking physical therapy and it's because i dont play any sports anymore (i used to play baseball before i messed up my arm and hurt my back). when i tried playing sports in general it only led to more injuries which led to more visits to the doctor which meant more physical therapy. i have my cousin who is going to help me out since he's a trainer and i'll hopefully get in shape because as it is i'm unfit. i'm not trying to go for the steroid freak look i just wanna tone my body and really make sure my muscles are getting worked out. really this is something i've wanted to do for a while and haven't been able due to lack of resources. the girl part comes later i'd hope. if nothing happens with that to hell with it that's the way it goes usually.</p>
<p>I haven't read the whole thread, so I don't kow if this has been mentioned but there a tons of websites for this issue. THese websites are supposedly from experts and players, so take it with a grain of salt.</p>
<p>from my point of view, the best way to get girls is just to talk to them, have something nice to say, clever, funny etc. If you strike out once, move to the next one, don't think about it for to long, because you'll lose confidence.</p>
<p>Im all for the hot confident alpha male kind of guy, but I think some guys also underestimate the power of unaffected boyish charm. --You don't have to always know what to say, and getting all flustered over something can be kind of endearing sometimes. </p>
<p>Some prissy *****es won't put up with it, like a few of my wonderful premadonna friends, but they're the ones who solelyyy go for the alpha male type, and you wouldn't be compatible anyway. </p>
<p>Also, a lot of girls are turned off by the player-esque pick-up techniques of the alpha male kind of guys. I know sometimes ill find it flattering when a guy is obviously nervous to be talking to me, or if it's really apparent hes worried about messing up. Somtimes you'll be at your cutest inadvertantly ;)</p>
<p>Palov: There are no specific jokes I save for women, I just don't joke about certain things with women. Examples: Fart jokes, jokes involving race, gender and in some cases sexuality. </p>
<p>Dancing: Key to dancing and not looking like a complete ass is to have the ability to move your upper and lower body to the same beat and have the same rythm on both halves. There's no need to be awesome, just aim to not look like an ass.</p>
<p>ffs, just be yourself. college girls aren't worth all the effort of totally selling yourself. don't take it too seriously, cause in the end, most girls will make you wish you hadn't.</p>
<p>no need for the gym. wake up, do some situps, pushups, and chair lifts. play an intramural. talk to a girl and smile. take her to your room. put a third eye blind CD in your computer. eat her face. sleep. eat. go to class.</p>
<p>well obviously dont be yourself if you're incredibly socially awkward and dont bathe for weeks at a time. at least be presentable and then be yourself, or you're going to find even girls that might like you running in fear.</p>
<p>This is going to be a useful piece of information:</p>
<p>take 2 shots, you will be set. It's good because </p>
<p>1) you will lose inhibition and act your true self</p>
<p>2) you can always take your words back by claiming you were drunk.</p>
<p>If you are good looking then girls will ask you out. If not, then don't bother. Also having a nice car is a plus.</p>
<p>2 shots? lol.</p>
<p>ok, shoot
girls</p>