<p>I'm sure there has to be other students on here who faced similar situation. </p>
<p>I like my roommate. We get along great, and she hasn't done anything to me. I'm wondering how to I tell them I'm withdrawing? She knows the situation a little bit, but doesn't know that I've been considering this option. She thinks I've been planning on going home frequently for doctor appointments, but I've decided that I rather just go home and rest. Go back to a different school summer semester so I can restart. I will only have 3 credits when I leave.</p>
<p>She knows space is at capacity so if I do go she will get a new roommate. She will need to move her bed in order for me to get my loft down, and put my stuff back in place. So in a way I will need her here. I'm bad with these situations. I feel guilty for leaving, but I know its for the best.</p>
<p>I would hope that my D would be understanding and wish you the best of luck in the future. It sounds like you have many things on your plate right now. Just take care of yourself. Do what you need to do. It’s nice of you to think of your roommates’ feelings but it happens sometimes.</p>
<p>Yeah, just be honest. You’ve gotta do what’s best for you and it speaks to your character that you’re taking the time to worry about your roomate.</p>
<p>I’m hoping to discuss with her either today before I leave to go to a family function, or talk to her this weekend. I thought by doing it before I leave it would give her time to think about it by herself. Hopefully she understands where I’m coming from. I rather her no get angry at me, or see this as me being selfish because I know she will get another roommate. And they may not be what she wanted.</p>
<p>Is there any chance that your roommate can pick who she gets as a new roommate? Maybe if she’s got a friend in a bad roomie situation that friend can move in and the school fill the resulting empty slot? If that’s an option at all, you’ll want to give her early notice so she can try to work something out. Good luck at your new school!</p>
<p>I think it’s admirable that you are concerned about how your roommate will feel when you leave.</p>
<p>I would just tell her honestly that you are not in the right situation for you and that you are leaving. You should offer to have your family or whoever is moving you help with moving her stuff and putting it back so she doesn’t get stuck doing it.</p>
<p>If you are interested in keeping in touch with her, set that up. If you’re not, say nothing.</p>
<p>I would of course offer to help her move her stuff, but I don’t know what I’m doing at this point.
I’m confused from every aspect. Financial hardly helped the only thing they said was to withdraw today, and than my mom called and told me I wasn’t thinking with my head. If I withdraw than I won’t get insurance from my dad. My dad told me to withdraw if that is what I wanted. I thought about how it will look in terms of the future. If stay and do poorly I will be making it that much harder to get into physical therapy school. This sucks. By the way if anyone is wondering I didn’t withdraw today because of my mother. I’m still considering putting it in right away on Monday morning.</p>
<p>I’m going to try to, but no guarantee because I have class that morning. I may miss class. I honestly don’t know. I did find out that my dad’s insurance implemented coverage for children under 26 regardless of age, student status etc. So I don’t know if I will lose insurance. I would be enrolling again next Summer, or just take a few courses on my own this Spring if I withdraw.</p>
<p>There’s no reason to feel bad for your roommate that you’re withdrawing. It’s entirely your decision to make. If you want to keep in contact, trade phone numbers and email addresses. When I withdrew from my first college, I just up and left. The guy never heard a word of it coming. </p>
<p>Be careful about withdrawing, though. It’s easy to say you’ll go back to school right away, but if you then decide not to…loan payback time! It took me years to pay off my loans so I could go back to school.</p>