<p>Hi. I'm a sophomore and I have a full ride to a state school. My first two semesters were terrible. I came in bio pre-med. But the weed out courses did more than show me I don't have the drive to become a doctor. They showed me that I barely have any drive for existing. I barely go to class anymore. I've talked to counselors, tried picking other majors, joining clubs, being social. Nothing's working. </p>
<p>I just feel like this was all a big mistake.</p>
<p>I know everyone here is just going to tell me to suck it up, because so many other people would do anything to be in my shoes. Well, you know what? I would give ANYTHING to trade places with someone who is more worthy. But my advisor said that you can't give people your scholarship. Maybe if I wasn't told "apply or be homeless" by my parents, I wouldn't have felt like college was an obligation or what "normal" people do.</p>
<p>Anyways, I asked my mom if I could take a year off but she said no. And the contract I signed said that I had to graduate in four years, so I'm pretty sure I couldn't leave if I tried. I don't belong here. Everyone who said "College is about figuring out what you want to do" is a liar. When I told my peers that I'm undecided, they treated me like I had the plague or something (the consequences of attending a research university). All they did was list random careers and then get upset that I didn't appreciate their brilliance by deciding at that moment. Career people had me take a test that said I should become a psychologist. (PU-LEASE. I didn't like that class AT ALL.)</p>
<p>I'm pretty sure I'm going to lose my scholarship. And I refuse to waste my mom's money if that happens. I don't even know why I'm writing this. It started out as a cry for help, but just degenerated into pure madness. So I guess I'm really asking what foreign country can I escape to, because my mom will skin me alive if I lose this scholarship.</p>