<p>Uh... international students might be happy to get into any American university, but first generation immigrants definitely have it tougher, IMO. </p>
<p>I don't see it as unworthy rather, it's more that going to HYPS is more of a "something to be proud of" as would be any family. It's not like you're going to be ostracized for going to another college, it's just that for Asians, going to HYPS you've made your family proud, per se. It's a big culture difference, the pride thing is very important to Asian families. Yes, it may not be compatible to American lifestyle, but telling people what to think and how to behave is a bit out of line, isn't it? </p>
<p>Most Asians know that going to a state school or not becoming a doctor, yes, you can succeed with all of that, but it's a matter of pride. Maybe the OP's reaction was a bit exaggerated, being that this was probably right after finding out, but it really is just that much of a big deal at times. </p>
<p>I dunno, I'm a bit tired and this argument sucks real hard, but all I can say is that I can relate very well to the OP.</p>