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<p>Hit them back. Equal rights. 21st century.</p>
<p>I would never initiate physical contact with anyone... but if they hit me, then they are fair game.</p>
<p>^ except guys are generally stronger than girls, so there's a pretty good chance you'll hit them back harder than they hit you and you might hurt them...</p>
<p>I completely agree with just about everything peter_parker said on the previous page.</p>
<p>If I ever heard that a guy I knew (even as a mere acquaintance) had physically injured a girl, he would soon find himself....... largely incapable of procreation, due to severe bludgeoning of his genitals with heavy, blunt objects. :)
If he was bigger than me, I'd devise a clever plan to beat the shi+ out of him anyway, probably by asking some friends for help.</p>
<p>Would such a response be technically illegal? Yeah.
Would it be an unethical "eye for an eye" response? Yeah.</p>
<p>Do I care? No.
He's gotta pay.</p>
<p>^ omg please be my friend? i tend to get beat up by guys....</p>
<p>^ Are you serious? Why? Do you continue to hang around these guys after they've proven to be abusive? </p>
<p>I just cannot comprehend the amount of sheer lunacy and d0uchebaggery it must take to stoop to that level. It's like kicking puppies. You have to have some seriously sociopathic tendencies.</p>
<p>but anyways, yes, of course I'll be your friend :)</p>
<p>^ i wasn't really serious in the sense of getting abused... but i play-fight sometimes and get my a$s handed to me... couple bruises, no serious injuries</p>
<p>the difference between this and abuse is that you're not afraid of hitting back or getting seriously hurt</p>
<p>^ lol, I still consider that a little odd. I would never be able to even bruise a girl (ok, not counting....incidental bruises from certain nighttime activites.....), unless she was some huuuuge bodybuilder that jumped me in a back alley. Or a ninja. Either one.</p>
<p>^ basically we were just trying to push each other over... not even hitting</p>
<p>altho sometimes i've had guys not realize i was more of a little sister than a little brother and joke around by judo-grabbing my arm....yea that guy got a couple bruises over the months...</p>
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<p>Depends. If a guy hit me back because I hit his arm, I pushed him away, or I slapped him... then I would hate for him to hit me back. Then again, I wouldn't hit a guy unless he hit me first. Even then, I'd probably go for the groin and run. >.></p>
<p>Id stab that ****er. Right in the heart.</p>
<p>Are we talking about Chris Brown and Rihanna?
(just a joke! don't kill me!)</p>
<p>But seriously, I think the best thing to do is escape. Although, I'd probably retaliate. Many people underestimate my strength, but sometimes I do overestimate it.</p>
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<p>then the girl shouldn't be hitting the guy in the first place. Picking a fight that you cannot win is stupid for anyone, regardless of gender.</p>
<p>They don't have to be picking a fight to be hitting the guy in the first place. It's quite acceptable for girls (or other guys) to slap/hit a guy if the guy did something grossly inappropriate--like if he sexually harassed her or did something really rude to the hitter.</p>
<p>I hit guys because of that and I'm not trying to pick any fights, and I also don't think they would be justified in retaliating.</p>
<p>Unless a guy is touching you or trying to touch you inappropriately, then a girl has no right to hit a guy, no matter how crass or mean he is.</p>
<p>Girls (and guys) have been phenomenally rude to me before. I'm not going to slug someone in the face because I'm throwing a tantrum or can't control my emotions.</p>
<p>^ Would you hit them if they were bullying your friend(s) horribly?</p>
<p>Women are allowed to talk to men without being talked to first? Since when was that allowed.</p>
<p>your disgusting hookem. I hope you end up with no male friends whatsoever.</p>
<p>Not gonna lie, I slapped the hell out of my ex when he broke up with me for another girl (who he had also been cheating on me with), and once when I was in high school, I slapped a guy who had been teasing me mercilessly for several months (the first time I ever hit ANYONE in my life).
But otherwise I would not normally hit someone. I have to be extremely upset. I don't think I've ever hit another girl (well, okay, I have, but we were having combat with bats and shields so it doesn't exactly count).<br>
If a guy ever hit me and was seriously meaning to cause harm (not just like, a smack on the arm or something) I would either call the police or call my guy friends... he'd probably rather I called the police, because most of my guy friends know martial arts and would f--- him up BAD. And of course I would probably hit back in self-defense in order to get away.
Most guys I know would never hit a girl because they know it would cause alot more damage than the girl could do on them.</p>
<p>I once observed the father of a girl talking with a prosecutor about the case of his daughter slapping her boyfriend. He had been in a car accident with her in the vehicle and she slapped him. She was charged with assault and faced a sentence of next to nothing to time in jail if she plead guilty. It would have been up to the judge (not known to be lenient). These were high-school kids. The father was in a fair amount of anguish as to what to do. I don't know what the outcome was.</p>
<p>In general, the guy probably won't do anything but, one should remember that he could. I've read of enough cases with women hitting guys with pots and pans, throwing things at them (assault with a broom), etc. that wind up in court with an attendant record and waste of time and money. Sometimes there are further costs.</p>
<p>One thing that still amazes me is that people admit to criminal behavior or intended criminal behavior on forums. This sort of thing could someday come back to bite you when you're confirmed for the Treasury Secretary position.</p>
<p>Yeah and what does a guy do if his ex had been cheating on him in an embarassing fashion? Slap her across the face? Oh yeah you just sit there and eat your lemons.</p>
<p>You just can't have it both ways. Either everyone has rights, or no one has rights. If you don't care about hitting someone and its consequences, then they may not care about hitting you and that action's consequences. And I bet most wifebeaters and scum like that only hit their girls when "they are really upset."</p>
<p>I realize we're all apes in the end, but you need to chill the f*** out. I don't have the right to jack some guy in the face who's twice my size without consequence because "he could do a lot more damage to me than me to him." It's not about size it's about gender stereotypes, social norms, and "knights in shining armor" who will protect women because they want to sleep with them. That's why women think they can hit men with impunity. Probably the same women who think they can hit their kids later in life, because who cares - it's just a matter of social consquences, which are nil, right? Grow up - mature adults don't hit each other to work out problems - unless you want to get the lawyers involved.</p>