<p>i read that and was confused too..i think you meant "check her out" lol</p>
<p>The point is, that line is lame and makes no sense.</p>
<p>no it doesn't make sense...
you don't check out the owner of libraries...</p>
<p>tell her that you heard there's a party in her pants and ask if you are invited.</p>
<p>Alwaysfaithful, you nailed it.</p>
<p>Dude, it's very easy. Just find out her whole name, look her up on the school's directory, e-mail her via her student address, tell her you think she's very pretty and you'd like to eat lunch with her some time, and see what she says. No harm, no foul.</p>
<p>So much violence. o_o I think we can rule the "punching her in the face" out.</p>
<p>From my view as a girl... I'd be willing to start off as casual friends with just about anyone... first impressions are important, but not the deciding factor. After knowing a person for a few weeks, I could decide on whether to be closer friends, or to make a quick yet subtle get-away.</p>
<p>Oh, and another thing? Girls are very good at picking up on whether a guy likes them or not. They just won't let you know that they know. ^^; So no need to be INCREDIBLY obvious about your liking her... just be your friendly ol' self, and she'll probably fall for you in no time.</p>
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From my view as a girl... I'd be willing to start off as casual friends with just about anyone... first impressions are important, but not the deciding factor. After knowing a person for a few weeks, I could decide on whether to be closer friends, or to make a quick yet subtle get-away.
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<p>Which is exactly why guys should just ask you out from the get-go and not waste their time while you "make a quick yet subtle get-away."</p>
<p>don't be intense, give her some space, but still look for her... gotme ?</p>
<p>well i think you should just talk to her and see how it goes. She might be a completely different than what you thought she was, or she might be the girl you imagined. If you do like her, just ask her out, to eat something or to go to a party with you.</p>
<p>agree #30. Maybe thar girl is pretty, but she can be very harsh or somthing like that</p>
<p>Here's a serious answer.</p>
<p>First off, do not email her if she did not give you her email. Kinda stalkerish, you know she's going to wonder how you got her email.</p>
<p>Do not give some girl you don't even know your power. I don't suggest something like this, "You want to go out sometime?"</p>
<p>Too much pressure on you and the girl that way. It makes you nervous, and she will probably be uncomfortable if she isn't already interested. </p>
<p>Make her want to have fun with YOU, not the other way around. She will respect you if you show that you have a life.</p>
<p>Say this:</p>
<p>"I'm going to have lunch <em>wherever</em> you coming?"</p>
<p>or </p>
<p>"I'm going to do <em>something interesting</em> you want to entertain me?" </p>
<p>Or you could suggest a specific day, like Thursday after class. This shows that you have a life. No girl wants you to drop all your plans for her, especially if she doesn't know you. Neediness is not attractive to anyone.</p>
<p>If you sense any bad body language or if she starts to make some excuse. Just say "ok, bye" and walk out then and there. </p>
<p>If she says no, the next time you see her, act like nothing happened. If she is interested she will find time to have fun with you.</p>
<p>Usually "I don't have time" or "I'm busy" is just an easy way of letting the guy down. If she is at all interested she will find time.</p>
<p>DO NOT LISTEN TO THE POST ABOVE. </p>
<p>"I'm going to have lunch <em>wherever</em> you coming?"</p>
<p>or </p>
<p>"I'm going to do <em>something interesting</em> you want to entertain me?" </p>
<p>saying either of those things will lead to a slap in the face and can pretty much be equated with saying, "hey woman, im hungry. go get me a sandwich". except for what he said about the email, that i agree with. </p>
<p>if you are really interested why not wait until you have a test or quiz coming up and suggest studying together or after a particularly funny class go up and joke with her about how funny the prof is. like most have said, the worst that can happen is that she doesnt seem interested and you move on. but you never know until you try.</p>
<p>Forget what I said. </p>
<p>Just be a doormat, don't be a challenge. Women hate challenges.</p>
<p>Ask her to study, how many thousands other guys say the same thing? Unless you just want to be her friend.</p>
<p>I'm just saying don't act like her opinions about you are going to really effect you, you are the same man with either outcome. </p>
<p>Be different</p>
<p>agreed ^^^ studying is kind of lame/boring...</p>
<p>try this one</p>
<p>you- "hey, have you ever seen a dorm room before?"
her- "...um, yeah, I live in one"
you- "Oh, because I haven't. can I come see yours?"</p>
<p>works like a lucky charm marshmallow.</p>
<p>dcmoose777: its not about being a doormat, its about tact. a challenge can be fun, but now when you dont know the girl. and sometimes the best path to take is friendship first. if you want a relationship, starting with a friendship can be a solid foundation. if you just want to get laid, then i agree, skip the friendship part. </p>
<p>willmingtonwave: i agree. if a guy asked me to study and i was interested, i would think "ummm ok i guess" but the OP seems to be a bit shy, and if hes afraid of getting shot down, its an easy way to get to know someone without leaving yourself completely vulnerable to rejection.</p>
<p>anyone serenade other people at all anymore ?!?</p>
<p>do it in a big(300p) lecture hall... hahahaa</p>
<p>Friends to lovers? Hahaha</p>
<p>When does that happen outside of movies?</p>