<p>But you don't know her at all. What are the steps you will take to get her to be your girlfriend?</p>
<p>Some advice needed. Thanks</p>
<p>what are u from kahzakstan or something????? honestly....either ur foreign or ur absolutly socially retarded</p>
<p>become her friend, and see if she is at all even interesting and worth dating?</p>
<p>The worst thing you can do is become her friend unless you know she likes you.</p>
<p>true, QJ, haha. You don't want to be pidgeon-holed as a "friend," but you can still get to know her by introducing yourself an being you. I don't really think there is a "magic formula."</p>
<p>anyone have good examples of how you've done it w/o going on the friend route or the "just talked her into bed right after meeting her" route (lol)?</p>
<p>Oh, haha, no, man. I am a girl. :P</p>
<p>I do know that TOUCH is very important. Use it sparingly but DO use it. </p>
<p>Oh there are some other things but I'm too tired to think from the point of view of a boy right now... :P</p>
<p>get into a fight, beat up your classmates, punch her in the face</p>
<p>it shows her how manly you are and she'll fall for you</p>
<p>yes, FALL for you... she just might after that punch to the face!</p>
<p>...But if you want to guarantee you have a living, breathing and non-comatose girlfriend, I would definitely suggest you be sure there's carpet or something soft for her to FALL on! (i.e... concrete or a tile classroom may not be your best option...)</p>
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<p>it shows her how manly you are and she'll fall for you
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I agree. This has happened to me. After bleeding profusely for an hour I was won over and am preparing to marry the man. Oh how I swooned!</p>
<p>just talk to her after class and ask her on a date/out for coffee/etc. straightforward, nothing to lose.</p>
<p>this is coming from a girl, btw.</p>
<p>or punch her in the face... see how that goes.</p>
<p>Well, I don't think you want to just ask her out before not getting to know her, because she might see you as a really shallow guy who's only interested in her for her looks. Maybe that would've worked in high school, but most college girls want to be appreciated for their personality/intelligence as much as for their beauty. What I would do is get to know her, hang out a little so that you establish an acquaintanceship, and THEN ask her out before the two of you start getting too comfy and "friendly". Get to know each other, but leave some mystery so that she'll want to date you in order to get to know you more.</p>
<p>Just go up to her and kiss her, works every time.</p>
<p>grimfan's got it down. get her number, let her tag along with you to some party
get your confidence up and make a move if/when you're both drunk enough
if not make a good impression, talk to her on AIM or something, and take her out or something.</p>
<p>I think my strategy works faster.</p>
<p>Why would you look at every hot girl as being there just as girlfriend fodder? Approach it just as you would with any other person without getting too far ahead of yourself.</p>
<p>just walk up to her and ask her out. its not that hard.</p>
<p>So...the only reason you want her to be her girlfriend is because she's hot? Lol. Anyways, just strike up a conversation sometime after class, and ask if she wants to go out for coffee or lunch. If she can't (i.e. she is busy that day but seems interested), ask for her phone number or ask if she can get together with you after class next time. If she says no, leave it. If you go out, just act naturally, don't be scared to death by lulls in the conversation, be interested in who she is more than how she looks, and act like a gentleman (pay for her, open doors, smile, don't make rude jokes or put a mutual friend down). If the date goes well, ask her out again...and eventually you two could be a couple!</p>
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So...the only reason you want her to be her girlfriend is because she's hot? Lol.
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<p>Why does this still surprise people?</p>
<p>Ask her if she owns a library, because you would like to "take her out."</p>
<p>^that made no sense, and i really hope you don't ever use that line...</p>