<p>Thanks for your insight! =)</p>
<p>I hope that me means it.</p>
<p>Does anyone else think he is/not interested in me?</p>
<p>Your gf has dibs on him so he is off limits to you.
He is trying to pawn you off to a guy friend, so he doesn’t want you.
Goofing around is not to be confused in interest in you.
You stand to lose both friendships.
Gfs are harder to find in the long run than bfs.</p>
<p>Lol what? He basically encouraged me to not go out with his friend.</p>
<p>But I agree with the rest of what you said.</p>
<p>Sorry perhaps I misread the other guy stuff.</p>
<p>No problem. I just want to know where we stand but don’t want to ask him. I don’t know what our relationship is… flirty friends? Do we both like each other but feel like we can’t be together because of the other girl?</p>
<p>But, obviously, I can’t ask him :(</p>
<p>Remember your gf and this guy still have feelings for each other.
Don’t be confused/duped by his flirtatious behavior.
You are considered safe for him to goof around with because you know that he is essentially off limits because of the lingering emotional attachment between your two friends.</p>
<p>So, should I be unresponsive to his behavior? I’ve been acting kind of cool when he does flirty stuff.</p>
<p>Yep.
Until your gf says she’s done with him, he’s technically “off limits.”
That is if you want to keep her friendship.
This level of drama is not good way to start a relationship, the combined guilt of hurting your gf will doom any chance you two may have.
Repeat this… “they still have feelings for each other, they still have feelings for each other…”</p>
<p>Well, I know that she has feelings for him because she told me.</p>
<p>I don’t know for sure if he has feelings for her because I haven’t talked about it with him… Apparently, they’re on the same page in terms of being ‘just friends’ but they still flirt.</p>
<p>You just have to wait it out for now. Obviously your girl friend still has feelings for him and possibly wants him back… he knows this and either can’t decide how he feels or doesn’t want to hurt her feelings. You’re just gonna have to stay like this with him until your girlfriend lets him go.</p>
<p>It’s not like you and this chick have been friends for a long time, which is the only way that he could be considered ‘off-limits’. You haven’t known her long enough for the BFF rules to step in.
I say that you go for it. He seems to be a great guy, and honestly those don’t come around often. And you may regret not going for it later. So next time you’re hanging out, be overly flirty, and if the opportunity presents itself, I say just go for it and kiss him. He’s been hinting that he wants something to happen, he may just need a little push.</p>
<p>Thank you for your response. Haha, I don’t know whether I should be overly flirty or ignore his flirtatious behavior…</p>
<p>Maybe he’s just like this with his female friends.</p>
<p>Oh - I forgot to add then when she’s around, he kind of ignores me. Sometimes it feels like he’s trying to make me jealous. I mean, he’s a really nice person and he couldn’t possible be that oblivious…</p>
<p>All i can say is **** that *****. If you want it get it.</p>
<p>eff that what ? Haha, I can’t get it if he don’t want it as well =)</p>
<p>i’ve been in this situation before, except that i’m a guy and what ended up happening as soon as i got with the girl is my friend realized he liked her still, and she decided she had feelings for him again and they ended up hooking up behind my back and i found out a week later from the guy’s current (but now former) girlfriend. it was a *<strong><em>ty situation all around, and i ended up forgiving the girl and getting back with her (huge mistake) and she *</em></strong>ed me over again. you don’t want to be someone’s back up. trust me it’s the worst feeling in the world and it makes you feel worthless.</p>
<p>i think he likes you… but then again, I also tease many of my girl friends…<shrug></shrug></p>
<p>I never responded to his comment on my FB saying that he was sad he hardly saw me at school.</p>
<p>Today in school, I started every conversation. He, like, wouldn’t talk to me… Do you think it’s because I didn’t reply?</p>
<p>Ugh; I like him more each time I see him.</p>
<p>I need to know how he feels about me.</p>
<p>If you can’t wait, just go for it.</p>