<p>I can wait… as long as we end up together. I honestly don’t think that I’ve ever wanted something so badly.</p>
<p>What would you girls do in this situation? And guys, do you think that he has feelings for me?</p>
<p>My beliefs yes.</p>
<p>See… why can’t this happen to me?
Girls end up hating me.</p>
<p>Why would he ignore me just because I didn’t respond to his post? blah</p>
<p>P.S. There is no way that girls will hate you if you’re not conceited or a jerk</p>
<p>Eh, they hate me still. I don’t act like a jerk to many people… anymore.
That stopped freshman year.</p>
<p>I am a math nerd, who lives and breathes math.</p>
<p>But back to topic…</p>
<p>Eh, I would consider telling him within a few weeks, few being 3 or less.</p>
<p>^^ Or if you are a girl yourself.</p>
<p>Source: field observation of girls. there is a high chance the someone will make a snide remark about that statment</p>
<p>I’m such a coward haha. I don’t think that I can/want to tell him.</p>
<p>Can I get some more opinions on what is going through his head? Does he like both of us or what?</p>
<p>I’m sorry I can’t contribute more but:
Never ever underestimate the obliviousness of guys. No offense.</p>
<p>However, if they’re really clever it might be different. I’m getting a gut feeling he’s playing you. I’m not entirely sure though. It might have something to do with you being friends with a girl he used to date. I personally know of an incident when a couple was dating was for a while, but then they broke up. So then he dated another girl, who was a close friend of his ex, for while. Only in the end, she was only there to make his ex jealous. Eventually it turns out they “still” had feelings for each other, and he broke up with her and got back together with his old girlfriend.</p>
<p>Thanks for your feedback!</p>
<p>The reason why I think he’s NOT playing me is because he flirts with me when my girl friend isn’t around. When she’s there, he never flirts with me.</p>
<p>Well yea but then that would be too obvious.</p>
<p>but how would it make her jealous if she doesn’t know it’s happening?</p>
<p>I don’t know… I can’t imagine him using me. He’s really genuine. We have so much in common and he thinks that I’m really sweet, funny and pretty so I don’t see why he’d use me.</p>
<p>Because he’s a TOOL!</p>
<p>I’m a guy, and I can honestly say, that deep down in all of us, there is complete tool bag, jerk. It’s sad, but it’s true. Guys will always hurt a girl, no matter how nice the guy is. They may not mean it, but it’s our nature. </p>
<p>Honestly, your best bet is to play hard to get. You seem easy to keep attentive (that’s good!), and he’s exploiting that. Show him that he has to rise to YOUR level if he really wants you.</p>
<p>Honestly, a friendship is always worth more than a relationship. I admire your courage to not go further, and potentially wreck a friendship. </p>
<p>I know how you feel though… girls can be tough on guys like this too.</p>
<p>PM me if you would like more advice! I do this a lot for friends (i’m the guy that every girl is friends with, but cant land a gf hahah… i guess because they want me as a friend?).</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
<p>^Yep, that seems pretty spot on from my observations. (not a guy btw)</p>
<p>I need to write a book…</p>