<p>Nope, I’m not indian. Although I’m kinda jealous of my indian friends with thier whole arranged marriage system.</p>
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<p>u mad doggie?</p>
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<p>Like this is really gonna help in college? LOL 
Even if this was by backup plan, I’d hate to rely on this. :p</p>
<p>if i want to major in EE will i be like this too? meaning no time for relationships</p>
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<p>Agreed.</p>
<p>Any dance classes in the area? It sounds lame, but going to dance once a week is not only a good way to exercise, but lots of girls need male partners to dance…what better way to get to know somebody in an atmosphere where there will probably be more girls than guys and everyone is awkwardly trying to get the steps down? Just something to think about.</p>
<p>PS: Girls love guys who can dance, so also think of it as a way to train your way to sweeping them off their feet later on.</p>
<p>^ great advise.</p>
<p>I go to university in Miami. Good luck picking up any girl if you dont know how to dance down here…</p>
<p>Drinking for confidence isn’t a good thing, but if that’s what it takes to give you a little push (at least the first time) then getting a little buzz wouldn’t kill you.</p>
<p>Make sure you don’t come off as needy and desperate. Just do your own thing, develop solid friendships and the girls should come, trust me. My relationships before college were complete disasters, but since halfway through the winter semester I am in a pretty solid relationship with someone I like very much 
Just let relationships develop naturally. I used to think the only way would be to force it but that definitely did not work out.</p>
<p>Parties and stuff are fun, but not really a way to make solid friends. Most people at parties are already with a bunch of friends, and I bet they won’t even remember you the next day, however friendly they seemed at the party.</p>
<p>‘Any dance classes in the area? It sounds lame, but going to dance once a week is not only a good way to exercise, but lots of girls need male partners to dance’</p>
<p>even guys with no social skills and confidence?</p>
<p>‘Parties and stuff are fun, but not really a way to make solid friends. Most people at parties are already with a bunch of friends, and I bet they won’t even remember you the next day, however friendly they seemed at the party.’</p>
<p>exactly</p>
<p>Just don’t go out looking for a random girl for a date without actually knowing if you like her or not just for the sake that you want to start dating. I think it is the worth the wait until you find someone you feel some spark, and make your move
Don’t you day dream of a girl in your class or something like that? If so, that is the girl you should ask out.</p>
<p>He’s an EE major. Of course he doesn’t dream about the girls in his classes. They’re most likely non-existent.</p>
<p>“yeah start drinking”</p>
<p>Most sound advice ever.</p>
<p>Do what I did when I first started High School (although you’ll do it in college). Start off by talking a girl you have no interest in or don’t find attractive. You probably won’t be nervous around her and you’ll gain experience on how to talk to girls in general. You won’t be nervous around her or anything. Basically use her as a practice g/f or date. This will boost your confidence when you approach someone you like.</p>
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<p>That’s so stupid. And immature. And inconsiderate of that girl’s feelings. What if she actually starts liking you? You don’t mess with people’s feelings like that for your own good. If you like a girl, grow some and get the guts to ask her out. If you can’t do that, you’re not ready for a relationship anyway.</p>
<p>nah it’s ok to practice on chicks and disregard their feelings.</p>
<p>TC, have you even been on one date? ever asked a girl out before?</p>
<p>‘Don’t you day dream of a girl in your class or something like that? If so, that is the girl you should ask out.’</p>
<p>it will also hurt that much more when she rejects you</p>
<p>awkwardly stand next to her tapping your fingers on a desk hunched over and mumble something about coffee</p>
<p>works every time</p>
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<p>drinking is awesome</p>
<p>This is mostly horrible advice and thermo1 sounds like a decently intelligent human being.</p>
<p>The reason he is so nervous or has “a lack of social skills” is because he is used to being surrounded by guys(In his social circle of friends, in his classes, and in probably most of the extracurricular activities he does). Aside from his major taking up a lot of free time(Which can still be balanced by time management) he feels he has no way to change this.</p>
<p>His lack of relationships in the past and lack of familiarity with the opposite sex makes him extremely insecure and afraid of attracting females.</p>
<p>What he needs to do is get involved with a group of females and start talking to them on a weekly basis. He doesn’t need to hit on ugly girls or get drunk to do this.</p>
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<p><em>Claps</em> A sound post amongst immaturity.</p>
<p>I’m a girl transferring as a junior and I’ve never been in a relationship…will that hurt me? lol</p>