<p>‘What he needs to do is get involved with a group of females and start talking to them on a weekly basis. He doesn’t need to hit on ugly girls or get drunk to do this.’</p>
<p>how so? he said theres no females in his classes. i think he said hes a senior in college, so its too late for him to join ECs with females</p>
<p>I’m actually going into my senior year so there is 1 year left…i guess.</p>
<p>just wait dude, there will be girls to approach you, assuming that you aint ugly.
worked for me…
donde try so hard on girls, will get worse</p>
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<p>Try not to focus on the fact that you’ve never been in a relationship, and focus on the reasons why perhaps you’ve never been in one. Are you too shy to talk to boys? Do you have any guy friends? I’ve seen a lot of pretty girls who’ve never been in a relationship, just because they come across as being standoffish and cold to guys, who don’t even bother talking to her. Look at this transfer as an opportunity to reshape your confidence and self image. Take the initiative and talk to some boys, sometimes even a smile with “hey how’s it going” works like magic. Don’t focus on getting a boyfriend, focus on getting some guys who are friends…I’m just making assumptions, but I would guess that perhaps most of your friends so far have been female? Feel free to correct me if I am wrong.</p>
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You still have your whole life ahead of you. It’s your senior year, so have fun. Take some risks. Even if they fail, you’ll be outta there in one year, anyway. Focus on yourself (aka have fun, love yourself) and the rest should come with it. Girls are attracted to confidence and guys who know how to have a good time. Unfortunately, I think this is usually why girls are attracted to a-holes, who just happen to bear those characteristics…</p>
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<p>Oh nos. 
I have loads of guy friends. It just might have to do with the fact that I’m morbidly hideous, though! Haha ;)</p>
<p>Honestly, not too worried. I’m only(?) seventeen.</p>
<p>As a Senior in College he still has one more year left of school to interact with females. </p>
<p>As he has stated, it is obvious that in his courses he is surrounded by almost all males. I would expect the same in any job or internship he has done related to Engineering. Electrical Engineering is a male dominated field. </p>
<p>How about looking outside of Academics. How about school clubs? How about school Sororities? How about eating in the school cafeteria once or twice per week with a female? How about attending sporting events that girls will be likely to attend including football games?</p>
<p>It won’t be easy for him to start a relationship just from simply attending these events but unless he starts to communicate with the opposite sex on a weekly(And hopefully; daily) basis then he chances of obtaining a relationship will greatly increase. He doesn’t have to agree with my advice; as TA3021 has been posting my personal experience and lack of maturity have no measure of influence.</p>
<p>“It’s your senior year, so have fun. Take some risks. Even if they fail, you’ll be outta there in one year, anyway.”</p>
<p>I need to do well this year in order to get into a good grad school as most schools look at your junior and senior years. </p>
<p>I think thats my problem…i put too much emphasis on getting good marks and getting into either a good grad school or finding a good job…</p>
<p>^haha you are funny</p>
<p>I think that aside from having romantic relationships…get some fun friends. If you are concerned about academics consider joining the college newspaper, etc. People at my old college’s newspaper were loads of fun, but you still learn a lot!</p>
<p>‘just wait dude, there will be girls to approach you, assuming that you aint ugly.’</p>
<p>just because they may approach him doesnt mean they’re attracted to him.</p>
<p>‘It won’t be easy for him to start a relationship just from simply attending these events but unless he starts to communicate with the opposite sex on a weekly(And hopefully; daily) basis then he chances of obtaining a relationship will greatly increase’</p>
<p>he just said that he has to focus on his academics since senior year grades matter most. so unless he gets lucky and meets girls in his EE classes all of a sudden, he will probably have troble meeting females again</p>
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<p>What do you mean by this? I was actually complimenting you.</p>
<p>My best advice would be to be confident and not be afraid to make a move. I’ve been on a couple of dates where the guy would be so afraid to take my hand, hug me, kiss me, initiate anything himself that the relationship thing never went anywhere. So what I’m saying is don’t be that guy that never does anything and then wonders why he never progresses or why he’s never had sex or made out with a girl. Its hard to be with someone who is too scared to do anything, who won’t even hug me without getting permission.
Just don’t expect the girl to do anything, because in most cases, you are going to have to lead. The girls who initiate relationships are most likely to be going after other outgoing and confident guys, and aren’t going to bother with someone who isn’t at least flirting or showing some interest in them.</p>