<p>"Yaledad wrote this one "Most people would say that those “prestigious” colleges offer more opportunities both as a student and perhaps as a graduate. "</p>
<p>Conventional wisdom is a funny thing, Einstein once said that convetional wisdom are a series of prejudices learned before the age of 18, and I tend to agree with him.Yes, conventional wisdom is that the ivies are magic, that just going their puts some sort of magic dust on the graduates, that just going there makes someone an uber person and so forth, and quite frankly that is twaddle, a mystique the schools themselves promote and a lot of people believe (and in many cases, it can help get a foot in the door, by people who swallow the mystique). </p>
<p>Does that mean Harvard, Yale et al, or Stanford or whatever are not great schools? No, they are, they offer unique opportunities, because they do attract top notch students (well, not in all cases, more on that in a bit), they have some great facilities and do attract some top notch faculty, better in some programs then others, and it is a unique experience. And like I referenced, the name of an ivy can open doors, especially in some of the more snobby portions of the working world, like investment banks, where there are still all kind of class based snobbery from the old days of the white shoe, eastern establishment ran things (rapidly changing, but still out there). </p>
<p>Does that mean that only they offer stimulation, or that somehow a top notch public university can’t offer something stimulating? No, and that is where frankly myth and snobbism comes into play. U Cal berkeley attracts really brilliant students, they have a student body I would put up against any ivy, and in the sciences they are probably better then most ivies…one of the things that Yaledad leaves off is that when an institution is top notch and offers an affordable tuition or even better is known for offering heavy scholarships to attract top level students, the result can be an elite status. There is an analogy to this in the music world, Juilliard and Curtis are known as two of the top conservatories in the world, but popular perception is that Curtis’ students are almost uniformly at the highest level, while Juilliard’s population ranges from the brilliant to works in progress…and why? Curtis is tuition free for all its students (and is also small). They attract students from the same pool, high level music students, have a smaller size, so they literally pick the creme de la creme of the creme de la creme. Juilliard is an incredible school, but they also admit more students, and it is expensive to attend there (same tuition as an ivy, same total cost), and because of that the range of students is more…Curtis is the equivalent in my analogy of an ivy, Juilliard a top level public college or a high level private with less of a mystique…</p>
<p>And quite frankly I think it is selling other environments short to claim that if you don’t go to one of the mystique places, like an ivy, that somehow the experience is more shabby. One of the blessings of this country is the number of colleges out there, and the fact that there are alternatives where the level of teaching and the experience of education could very well be as stimulating as any of the big name schools, and in fact are having talked to graduates. Take a look at successful people in the world, scientists and poets and authors and lawyers and doctors and such, and you find excellence from a wide variety of sources;likewise, if you trace the path of ivy league graduates, you see some who excel, who do incredible things, and you also see many who don’t do anything extraordinary. This country is very different then in other countries, the Asian countries come to mind, where they have a very small number of elite colleges and universities, and if you don’t get into them, your future is dimmed (basically, there it is true what is untrue about the ivies, the name of the school there pretty much sets your future path).</p>
<p>And one thing I think is being left out, and that is at ivy schools there are the kids who shine, and they have significant portions who aren’t 4.0’s, who coast through, having gotten in they basically don’t exactly burn the firmament. At Stanford, an excellent school, they also have party hearty rich kids, as they do at Princeton and Yale and Harvard et al, and these kids are not allowed to fail, things like grade inflation and ‘gentleman’s c’s’ still exist, and besides knowing a lot of people who went to those schools, and their kids, this has been written up. </p>
<p>And I will solidly tell you as a hiring manager, and as someone with 25 years in financial services as well as contacts with managers in a variety of industries, whatever push an ivy or elite college education gives you tends to end very quickly, after that it becomes what someone does. Yeah, there are still managers out there who look at someone’s resume and the first thing they do is look at what school they went to, especially true of people who grew up in cultures where that matters, but it is relatively few and far between, once you are out there it is proving what you can do…and things like grades in college, what college you went to, what names you can drop don’t mean all that much…and the old boy, wasp, ivy league mafia that dominated business for a long time is either dead or near death, globalization nailed them as much as it did manufacturing jobs and that was the hallmark of an ivy education. </p>
<p>The real answer to the OP is up to them, if they feel going to an elite school will motivate them to work harder and get into a top program, more power to them, if they think it is worth the 100k in loans and financial stress for the family, then do it, but I think it is also valuable to realize from people who have been out there not to do it on mystique, but on facts, and the fact is that admissions people will not take a 3.5 from an ivy over a 4.0 from a less elite school, assuming the kids took equal levels of coursework (someone getting a 4.0 majoring in a non science list history and taking only the required science courses for pre med would not be the same as someone majoring in EE with a 3.5), the name alone could be an edge with kids with two seemingly equal background I suspect. One of the fallacies is that if you go to a non ivy, that they are teaching at a lesser level, when in many course tracks , especially in the sciences, it doesn’t matter where you go, you take organic chem at MIT or take it at harvard or Rutgers, and it is going to be pretty much the same course, they aren’t teaching graduate level organic chem at MIT in organic chem 1 as a pre med concentration…and admissions people know that, they know that if someone got a’s in orgo at Rutgers it is pretty much the same as getting it at Stanford or Harvard…</p>