<p>He warned me ahead of time, but he said only an hour at the most then they were going to a birthday party, but his hour has been extended until further notice. I haven't prepared any sleeping arrangements, so where the heck do i go?</p>
<p>right now i am in the computer room, in my dorm house. Should i sleep here? or spend some money and go to a hotel??</p>
<p>this is my first time being sexiled and it sucks.</p>
<p>Extended “until further notice?” Eff that, that is disrespectful. You are going to get walked all over all year at this rate. If you feel comfortable coming to an agreement about occasional sexiling then I don’t think it’s inherently unreasonable, but “until further notice!?” You have got to be kidding!</p>
<p>Once…understandable. But from now on, it either needs to be mutual or he needs to work something else out. It’s 10:41 where you are right now and you can’t just tell someone that they can’t enter their room “until further notice.” I’d politely wait it out this time, but have a talk with him afterward.</p>
<p>Wow, dude, is he making you buy his condoms too? He’s walking all over you. If you don’t end this now, soon you’ll be doing his homework and attending his classes disguised as him.</p>
<p>What an ass. Tomorrow, you need to set some ground rules with him about it. If he wants to bump the good stuff after x-pm, he needs to take it elsewhere. </p>
<p>He’s being an inconsiderate ass and you need to call him on it–or else he’ll probably keep taking leisurely strolls down your back.</p>
<p>like evrybody just calm down… swineflu17 jus tlk to him about it and let him know its not ok. Then draw up a contract you both can agree on, sign it ofcourse and show it to tha RA as witness and it’ll be official.</p>