<p>i wrote a message at the beginning of the semester about having a tough time in school and a lot of people gave me advice and i tried a lot of it. unfortunately, none of it has worked.
so the situation is this: basically, i'm a sophomore in college and have zero friends. its kind of a long story but i'm not friends with the people i hung out with last year anymore and i never made any new friends this year. none of the people on my floor are friendly or looking to make new friends so i'm not friends with them. i did random for a roommate and we talk and living together works out but we're not friends. i've been on a couple intramural sports teams but i'm just friendly with those kids during the games but not at the games and they're all seniors. (i think one of them is also trying to flirt with me via text message but i'm not interested so if that gets awkward, i don't know if i'll be able to play sports with these kids again next semester.) i sort of have a couple friends in my classes but i don't talk to them outside of class, and again, a lot of them are seniors.
for next semester, i am trying really hard to get a job. i think it would be a good way to meet a couple new people and make some money in the mean time. its just really hard, though because i don't have work study and places here don't really hire unless you have it. if i can't get one, i will probably end up volunteering at an elementary school instead. at least either one of these options will give me something to do. i'm also thinking about moving dorms next semester just to change things up but its a big risk so idk if i want to.
my boyfriend also broke up with me and i still really like him so that's a problem too. </p>
<p>so i'm sorry if this is so long. but if anyone could just give me any advice, i would really appreciate it. i don't know if i want to transfer either, for junior year because i don't think things would be different at any other school. i just really need some advice on how to make friends next semester. i'm a really normal person and i just don't get why i never made friends. thank you so much.</p>