<p>As a lawyer in a college town, I can tell you that my observation is that there is a point--imminent expulsion--where having a local attorney versed in the particular school's honor/responsibility code would make sense and would be helpful. Of course, if the school refers her to local law enforcement, you absolutely should get one. It does not sound to me as if you are anywhere close to either of those two scenarios, so have a lawyer butt his/her head in probably wouldn't help and might be counterproductive (e.g., chill administrators' willingness to discuss things with you).</p>
<p>I'll also observe that if there is anything good to come out of this situation, you know that your daughter is going to a school that cares enough about her welfare to enforce substance abuse rules. Many would look the other way. If they are doing that, they'll also care enough not to allow one mistake to ruin an otherwise good kid's college experience. At orientation at my daughters' LAC, the counselor at student health invited parents to call and discuss their concerns. They were mindful of privacy and HIPAA and all that crap, but were willing to discuss "hypotheticals" and the counseling services available at the school. If it were me, I'd try to get her into some counseling sessions--it can't hurt, they might be able to help her address peer pressure issues (if that is all it is) and if it is something worse, they might be able to intervene and get her some help. And though it is only an incidental benefit, it may be helpful for her to recount that she is seeking counseling when she appears before whatever tribunal will hear this.</p>
<p>Man, I thought parenting adolescents was hard. Parenting grown kids is almost impossible. Good luck.</p>