<p>Our youngest child is a freshman at a small liberal arts school. We have long considered her to have Asperger's Syndrome, though she is not formally diagnosed. We expected her to have some difficulties adjusting to college, but we did not expect the troubles she is having.</p>
<p>Her Issues:
1) She has received some failing grades on tests, middling grades on other assignments, and a few good grades with support.
2) She meets weekly with an Academic Services support person, weekly or more often with her professors, and has an academic (older peer) coach. Many people have/are trying to help her.
3) She had to drop one of her courses this semester, because of such a low failing test score.
4) She entered college with very high SAT scores, a high GPA, several good AP test scores, and other academic awards under her belt. She was in the Honors Program the fall semester, but only earned honors in one course due to low grades.
5) She entered college on a very good scholarship, and she will lose all/most of it, due to her grades this year.
6) She never remembers what grades she has gotten on anything, how far she is on tracking music practice hours, or anything like that. I have to push her for information, or look up her grades online myself (she gave me permission).
7) She loses her keys, has left her laptop sitting in hallways, and can't manage to carry a cell phone, answer calls, or answer texts.
8) Even with monitoring (RescueTime) her computer usage shows too many hours playing games.
9) She was put on antidepressants at the college health center, plus goes to bi-weekly counseling. She has trouble sleeping.
10) She eats most meals alone, her roommate moved out, and I think she does not interact much on her dorm floor.</p>
<p>I will add that she was homeschooled all her life, but we also homeschooled our older 3 children, and all 3 have excelled in college/grad. school. So this is definitely more than just an adjustment issue.</p>
<p>What is concerning us most is that even with help of people at her college, she is not improving in her ability to handle things, she is not learning from experience. </p>
<p>We are at quite a loss what to do with her for her future. She loves her college and does not want to live at home, but her executive functioning seems to be impaired more than I had realized even. I really did not expect her to have the academic issues she is having. She's very very bright, but her future is not looking bright at the moment.</p>