Nice girls want genuinely nice guys

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<p>I think that I would. I don’t believe that we possess a choice in which body we acquire.</p>

<p>In reference to Twilight- I read all four books in an effort to gain a comprehension of the obsession. I still don’t see what the big deal is.</p>

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<p>…You sure that’s logical? lol You had me really believing you…</p>

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<p>Umm…I would get a LIFE?! I wouldn’t watch the love of my life. That’s just being clingy and its a complete turn off.
And what does he want to protect her from?! He had nothing to protect her from, except from his own creepy advances (calling her a favorite brand of heroine? You’ve GOT to be kidding me!!)</p>

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<p>Alright, so its like a banana…the eatable part is in the inside. Well, you don’t see me going around falling in love and fu**cking a banana…I eat them :]</p>

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<p>Ok, maybe I’ll give you that…but still, he gets pretty irritated quickly if a guy just LOOKS at her.
And its really creepy how he reads other people’s minds. I mean wth? If I could read minds, I could get laid by the hour.</p>

<p>Anyways, I’ve strayed away like crazy. My point still stands: Guys like bad dudes. Twilight is a horrible example, my bad.
But you know its true! :]</p>

<p>I feel like I’m too nice, and then other times I’m not nice enough, there’s no happy medium. Lol.</p>

<p>lol at the above about twilight</p>

<p>Anyways, I doubt any girls would want to date the sickeningly nice guys out there… The guys that do everything she asks (even as a friend), remembers every detail of all the time they spent together, does everything for her, etc.</p>

<p>From what I’ve seen, girls want a james bond on the outside, and the nice guy on the inside. Which is a near impossible feat for any person. When do you act as the “bad boy” and when as the “sweet guy”? Furthermore, is it even possible to do so, without feeling like one personality is a facade? </p>

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<p>^^^ please stop arguing with girls about Twilight <em>facepalm</em></p>

<p>Anyways, nice guys lose. For some reason girls enjoy being treated like ■■■■■.</p>

<p>^truedat</p>

<p>You’re right, I should stop arguing. Whatever logical points I make, girls still end up liking unreasonable things…</p>

<p>^^^That’s kind of hard to achieve Whan.</p>

<p>Twilightislulz.</p>

<p>If Edward is like hundreds of years old, wouldn’t he have had a rather large amount of time to perfect is social skills? Why is he still so weird and awkward?</p>

<p>Exactly, how nice are we talking about?</p>

<p>I can’t speak for everyone, but for me, there’s a fine line between being genuinely nice and just plain old creepy/obsessive, which unfortunately, I can’t deal with that kind of niceness. </p>

<p>I already have issues dealing with one of my teachers because he was too much of a good heart lol. The sweetest person ever who feels for everyone, but I have this constant fear that I’m gonna ending up disappointing him and crushing his little heart. I can’t deal with things on that much of a fragile level. </p>

<p>That doesn’t mean I’m looking for someone who has the whole “bad boy” persona down. I can definitely do without that. In any case, I’m not asking for overly overtness it comes to being nice, just knowing (regardless of how he chooses to express it) that he is genuine, and I am in fact attracted to him is sufficient for me at least. If I have to, I am willing to sacrifice good looks for someone real without any second thoughts.</p>

<p>Lol, what could possibly be wrong with a subservient guy?</p>

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<p>Yes, and the best way to start is by being on CC. ;)</p>

<p>J/k.</p>

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<p>That’s the furthest thing from the truth. There’s a difference between “being nice” and “not being a dick.” You need to put effort into it.</p>

<p>I like a guy who’s respectful and a gentleman but can also make me laugh… most girls wud like that right?
i mean, a guy 2 treat u like crap??? mmmm i dont see how that’s attractive…
but hey, everyone has their own taste hehe</p>

<p>Edward Cullen is a fictional character and he will never love you.</p>

<p>“…You sure that’s logical? lol You had me really believing you…”</p>

<p>yes, i would say my estimated percentage is pretty accurate. we girls don’t read twilight for the modern-day vampire dietary tips ;)</p>

<p>“And what does he want to protect her from?!”</p>

<p>eternal damnation. & then there was that lunatic red-head vampire that was after her…</p>

<p>“He had nothing to protect her from, except from his own creepy advances (calling her a favorite brand of heroine? You’ve GOT to be kidding me!!)”</p>

<p>LOL, yeah…things like that are just bad writing on meyers’ part. it doesn’t really have anything to do with how i envision the character of edward…</p>

<p>okay, i’m not going to touch upon the sex/dietary aspects again, lol…</p>

<p>“If I could read minds, I could get laid by the hour.”</p>

<p>&&&& THIS is what separates you from edward. lol, sorry ;)</p>

<p>“Edward Cullen is a fictional character and he will never love you.”</p>

<p>LOL, no sh**. where did that even come from?..no one was debating whether he was real or not…</p>

<p>^^^ haha nice :-)</p>

<p>"That’s the furthest thing from the truth. There’s a difference between “being nice” and “not being a dick.” You need to put effort into it. "</p>

<p>I don’t think you really know how much effort I have put in, brah.</p>

<p>Maybe my generalization only applied to my school. It was just my .02</p>

<p>^ Sorry to hear it. Things’ll change pretty quick</p>

<p>Sorry if my post sounded confrontational. That really wasn’t my intention.</p>

<p>I don’t doubt the proposition of the title, but I think a lot of girls like nice guys who are maybe a little creepy but romantic in fiction, then completely ignore that in real life. Just the impression I get.</p>