<p>^^^ Yeah, you are. </p>
<p>Life would be a lot easier if a guy would just tell you when he likes you. :/</p>
<p>Nah, I think it’s just because we’re all confused. </p>
<p>Theoretical and realistic are so vastly different most of time.</p>
<p>@hi<em>im</em>leila: Are you joking? And what happens if you reject us?! We become laughing stock of the entire school.</p>
<p>How would you feel if a random guy-associate told you that he liked you??</p>
<p>I have a theory.</p>
<p>Girl says she want a nice guy. Guy tries to be nice. Guy is dumb and thinks nice=weirdly sappy/wimpy i.e. “you are my special sunshine/oh I would never dream of hitting anyone guy or girl we’re all god’s children.” Girl decides guy is weird. Guy decides girls don’t really want nice guys.</p>
<p>Hey. It happens.</p>
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<p>I don’t know what kind of school you go to, but that’s false.</p>
<p>srry 2 b all nosy hehe
but why would you be a laughing stock of school? You’re taking the courage to tell someone your feelings. That doesn’t seem bad at all.</p>
<p>John, I actually think that would be quite flattering!</p>
<p>“^^ Never tell a woman that you love her.”
I said most, not all things, think before you talk out of your ass. :
Also Luca, there are ways of being nice besides acting like a complete suck-up towards the girl you like. She’d just think you’re creepy.</p>
<p>love is waaaaaaayyy different than like</p>
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<p>haha well I <em>was</em> exaggerating a bit. But there’s a significant number of guys who act strange when they try to be nice, and then they think ‘nice’ is their problem.</p>
<p>Or maybe I just know some weird guys.</p>
<p>"I have a theory.</p>
<p>Girl says she want a nice guy. Guy tries to be nice. Guy is dumb and thinks nice=weirdly sappy/wimpy i.e. “you are my special sunshine/oh I would never dream of hitting anyone guy or girl we’re all god’s children.” Girl decides guy is weird. Guy decides girls don’t really want nice guys."</p>
<p>well, that particular guy WOULD be weird 
it doesn’t change the fact that nice girls do like nice [mentally stable] guys.</p>
<p>“We become laughing stock of the entire school.”</p>
<p>not if you become friendly with her first. just be nice, talk about commonalities ya’ll have…then if you say something like ‘you’re nice’ or ‘you’re different from most girls’ & MEAN IT, she won’t blab to her friends about it;she would be like ‘aw, thanks’. which leaves either the ‘friendship’ route, or the ‘more than friendship’ route. neither of which suck.</p>
<p>honestly, i just gave every nice guy out there a freaking OUTLINE on how to tell a girl you feelings. & yet, some of you will inevitably still come back complaining. guys are so thick in the skull, sometimes.</p>
<p>^ word .</p>
<p>RAWR, THIS GIRL TOLD ME I WAS A LOSER ON FACEBOOK /sadface. I kid, I kid. :]</p>
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<p>Absolutely!</p>
<p>^^^^ Actually the “friendship route” is a pretty lame place to be if said guy actually likes said girl. There are plenty of nice kids I know who are permanently stuck there.</p>
<p>^ And girls are not?</p>
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<p>Haha for sure. And then some guys try to say what they’re “supposed to” say and it just comes off as insincere…even if they do like the girl.</p>
<p>Whatever. Most guys are bad at this stuff xD</p>
<p>^I know wat u mean</p>
<p>^^^ Being stuck in the permanent friendship thing is no fun. Honestly, when such a thing occurs, I just figure that it’s not meant to be a relationship and move on.</p>
<p>So, say a debate were to start regarding how long can friendship last before a legitimate relationship, what would you say? Lol.</p>
<p>^ It really depends.</p>
<p>I’m usually good at gauging what direction the friendship will go in. There’s no timetable; it all has to occur when (and IF) the time is right.</p>