<p>I come to CC for advice about this situation because I am most comfortable discussing this with strangers rather than close friends (don't know why, but I just am). </p>
<p>I'm a junior in high school. That's right. I've got the SATs, ACTs, four APs (physics c, english language, apush, and calc), and all the school stresses that come about. I'm also actively involved in Marching Band and Boy Scouts as well. </p>
<p>I've got a problem with my situation at home. My parents aren't talking to each other and are sleeping in different beds. This is rather unusual in my family. This type of stuff usually happens, but is settled down and everything goes back to normal within two-three days, a week max. Problem is, this week begins week two. My dad, who usually promotes dinnertime as a time when the family comes together and eats, enjoying each other's company, does not do this anymore and merely comes down to eat for a very SHORT amount of time. </p>
<p>You probably know how this relates to my schoolwork. I'm constantly stressed out by this silent tension my parents created as well as my usual AP homework. However, my grades have not shown any significant drop so far, since it's only about a week since it started. </p>
<p>I'm afraid to ask my parents what's going on, because our family does not usually discuss family relations. I have, however, made a promise to myself that I will ask my mom what's going on between them by the end of the week. </p>
<p>You're probably thinking that my parents will get a divorce or something. My mom decided to go down this road once. However, my little brother's grades plummeted tremendously (almost straight Fs) in middle school, and she realized this sort of irregularity pushes my brother and myself to the limit; we can't handle all this stress put on us. My parents have discussed on it, but neither want to fill out the divorce paperwork required nor want to do it during our high school years. </p>
<p>I'm afraid that if my grade were to plummet this semester, and college apps come, I won't have any reason why besides of "family tensions," but have no proof of it. </p>
<p>What can I do? Should I ask my mom earlier, or just wait it out and hope it all turns out okay?</p>
<p>Thank you for any advice you give.</p>