<p>When you have the opportunity, you should look for a counselor who is not a family member or a friend. Immigrant families have their own special issues, and it will be good for you to have someone to talk with who can help you find your own pathway through all of this. Your goal should be to become a well-adjusted 1st gen. Not easy I know, given the craziness of the immigrant parents, but you sound like you have the basic tools necessary to do so. </p>
<p>Wishing you all the best!</p>