<p>"A thread full of many ridiculous unsubstantiated opinions will have done nothing (I hope) to change the mind of my undecided son about joining a fraternity! </p>
<p>I do appreciate the opinions of those with first hand experience, however."</p>
<p>I am not entirely sure that I understand that post correctly. I will, however, assume that it means that for having a valid opinion on this subject one has to be or have been a member of a fraternity, leaving the others to have "many ridiculous unsubstantiated opinions". </p>
<p>That is a rather interesting position! For example, among the members of CC, most everyone is or has been attending a high school, but I doubt that more than a handful of posters can claim to be experts on the subject of K-12 education on a national basis. Most everyone on CC is involved in appliying to colleges, yet very few can claim to know what happens outside a littel circle of knowledge. </p>
<p>When it comes to opinion, I'll take the road less travelled: the members from on single entity are the ones whose opinion could be dismissed because of the singularity of the experience. does the experience of one benign sorority on the west coast influences a hardcore fraternity on the east coast? Does being a member of the first mentioned sorority makes you an instant expert? </p>
<p>From my vantage point, I'll take reports and studies any time over the handful of personal experience, even if some dismiss it as "ridiculous unsubstantiated opinions". I'll keep on accepting the conclusions of a survey of over 100,000 students over the handful of "valuable opinions". </p>
<p>For that reason, the arguments offered by a poster like FundingFather fall flat on their face. The OVERWHELMING majority of the students belonging to fraternities ARE involved in binge drinking, not a small percentage. In this case, the exceptions do not confirm the rule. The stereotypes are not really stereotypes but correct assessments. If the pro-fraternities are complaining about a poor reputation, the blame falls entirely on them. Where are the reports of good actions? Where are all the positives? The reality is that they are so deeply hidden that most pro-frats cannot even express clear examples. </p>
<p>In this discussion, it is the pro-fraternities crowd who has consistently refused to look at the facts and preferred to retreat behind a curtain of indignation. No matter how hard I try to balance the opinions, I find the evidence about the known actions of fraternities to be mostly negative. You may dispute my conclusions, but you canhardly blame me for NOT having looked at the other side, starting with linking to the greekchat.com. I have checked multiple student websites and newspapers: when it comes to fraternities, most stories report repeated attacks by the faculty and administrations to curtail or eradicate the fraternities from their campus. Why would they do so, if the associations were so beneficial? Despite looking for hours, I have yet to read one report of a college that comes outright to recognize the benefits of greek life, and not mention severe hesitation. On the other hand, the stories about colleges booting the fraternities out of sight are almost every day fodder. </p>
<p>It is pretty easy to see that the die has been cast. Colleges with active fraternities are on their way to become as anachronistic as colleges without web access. There is a great chance of survival for the fraternities and sororities that focus exclusively on the positive -the type presented by Lizschup. The days for the ones that enjoy paddles for games of beer-pong or for hazing are numbered. It is no different from the process of eliminating smoking from public spaces. In the beginning there were loud disapproving noises, but surely the population at large started to realize how much more healthful the world is when smoking is no longer tolerated. The only question that remained unanswered was, "Why did it take so long to see the light?" </p>
<p>I have little doubt that when my children will be ready for college, they'll ask me to tell them stories about the time when drinking was allowed in the vicinity of a college campus. The same stories that your ancestors might have told you about prohibition in the 20s. </p>
<p>I will not shed a single tear, and probably enjoy the fact that this demise could have been caused entirely by ridiculous unsubstantiated opinions!</p>